and dump the ones that will do anything for them?
2006-11-15 19:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good Question.... I think a lot of it has to do with the charisma that is put out from those crappy guys through their confidence... they do a lot of convincing... and those nice guys.... usually to shy, and not as assertive in approaching (or competing to tell the a$$ to go away) and the girl doesn't notice them because they do not typically display themselves as an item. The usual come-on by the jerks are pretty obvious, and it might be easier than getting turned down by a friend that is too shy to say anything so... date the jerk. Women like men who take the initiative on certain things..(not force) and way too many jerks can't tell the difference. I could go on way too long in answering this.. to late... or early? anyway, excellent question!
2006-11-15 19:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally...they only stay because they're afraid to leave. Then when they do leave...it's too late, the emotional damage was done and they go running back to the one who started it all hoping for someone to confide in. It always end either with a court....or a dead body.
Most women dump guys who are good to them because although women love a good man, they also want SOME thrill. When a guy would do "anything" for a girl, it gets kind of scary not to mention annoying. We may like you just as much, but we need our space!
2006-11-16 03:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a lack of self esteem, they may have had people treat them with lack of respect in the past, so they have got used to a certain pattern of behavior from men.
when they do meet someone nice they find it hard to handle.
2006-11-16 03:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by redditch b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it probably has to do with low self esteem.Or they were raised to be beneath men,"my great grandfather" ,who was a minister, use to say ,"A woman was made from Adam's side to be by his side,not from his feet to walked on". Now days men don't know how to treat woman.And woman just except the abuse.
2006-11-16 03:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been thinking about that, though I finally dump guys who treat me bad... but after a lot of effort...
I think it's kind of a challenge, like you can't believe that someone could be like that, and you stick to it so you can prove yourself you can change him... and he never does...
I think it's all about that...
2006-11-16 03:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by karlita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are so in love, they will put up with it. or, they are afraid of life without that person. even though it will obviously be a better life. also, in some cases, they actually like being treated like crap.
2006-11-16 03:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem, emotional issues etc... they are not emotionally healthy women... smart , sane women choose the good guys!
2006-11-16 03:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Fortune 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way it is. gals like it BAD !!
2006-11-16 03:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋