my 3 years old son doesn't talk in the class room?

Question

i have 3 children Maryam 4 years Aboudi 3 years and Meera 5 months my problem is with Abudi he doesn't speak with the teacher or friends in the class but @ home he is talks sing very nice what could i do 2 let him comunicate in the class???

Answer 1

hello,

your son feeling shy, when ever he came back from school, after refreshment, try to talk with him, just ask him some questions,

what you classmates says about your dress, have you share your lunch with them,

some times give him some food extra for friends, ask him have you give food to your friends, when is your friends b'day ask him we will give him gift.

ofcourse for teacher, just tell him your madam says you done very well in class, have you answers all questions, have your teacher give you some extra marks then others

just creat curisity for others he will curious and try to talk with them

try it, this can help you,

God bless you and your baby

bye

Answer 2

he is shy it is normal. He may not know what to do or how to act toward the other chidren maybe since he so young maybe you could go to class with him couple time so he can feel comfortable to talk and be like he is at home that may help him adjust a little bit better. Or maybe bring in something interesting to him and let him bring it in to school that could be a good ice breaker for him bc the other kids will ask what it is and if he is interested in whatever he brings in that may make him want to talk about it and then he will be talking to the kids in now time. I would not worry about it too much he is only 3 years old and longs he talks to you then he is fine. but the above is fine to do too just to help him along to make him more confortable with the other children.

Answer 3

Has someone criticized him for speaking in class? Did he answer a question wrong and people laughed at him? Maybe he feels like his input isn't valued in that setting. These days, a lot of emphasis is put on keeping kids quiet. Most elementary/pre-school classes are taught by women, who are generally more quiet anyway. Little boys are naturally quite the opposite, often creating difficulties. It's odd that he would be so quiet since he's a boy. Just encourage him & build his self-esteem.

Answer 4

From a teachers view point I can see why that would bother you. Is your native language the language spoken at school? Somethings that may work is having your child bring pictures, games, toys,etc from home that may make them feel more comfortable at school. Talk with the teacher and see how they feel your child is interacting with others. At home really play up school, the teacher, and the other kids; let your child know that you want them to have fun and make friends at school. It may help for you to be more involved at the school, stay a little longer and read a book to the class, draw with your child and talk to the other kids so that your child can see that it's safe to interact with others. Also you have to give your child time he maybe shy and building relationships on your own at that age can be pretty scary.

Answer 5

Its really important for the parents to visits their child's preschool on a regular bases. Stay for hr or more a couple times a week. Involve your self in his activities. This show his this might not be a bad place after all moms having fun. He needs a little extra time now anyways hes not the baby anymore and then having to leave home to.

Answer 6

If he's a little shy, that's ok. He's only 3! Just let him be himself, and let him be quiet. By the time he's a bit older and gets used to being in a classroom he'll have more confidence to speak.

Think of it positively... at least you don't have a teacher complaining of his wild, loud, bad behavior!!

Answer 7

I would give him time to adjust to his surroundings. He may just be figuring this new environment out. If he is open at home he will most likely open up when he feels that comfortable in his class room.

Answer 8

Don't worry about the classroom. If he communicates at home (especially as happily as you say), he is just fine. He is probably just sizing things up. Give him as much time and space as he needs.

Answer 9

Hon, he is just a little one. He will talk in class when he is ready to . If you push him he will feel it and resist.

All kids are different

Answer 10

u try to arrange ur other kids with him in his classroom. ask ur kids to talk to him in front of his classmates,maybe this will work & make him speak.