Can a Muslim girl wearing hijab go clubbing?

Question

I know of a girl who wears hijab that has been to bars and clubs with her friends. She doesn't dance but she is very friendly with guys there (when it comes to talking to them). Even at school she constantly flirts with guys and makes an effort to talk to them. Doesn't that make her a hypocrite in a way?

Wearing hijab means you dress and act like a modest Muslim. I have also heard "there's nothing you can't do in hijab that you can do without it." But isn't she representing her faith with the hijab and, therefore, should work harder at being a good Muslim?

Answer 1

an important thing that i considered before putting on hijab was that i was going to be a visual representative of Islam.... and that some, if not many, would take my actions to be what is declared as good and bad by Islam. hijab is so much more than a piece of cloth

it might be helpful to remind this sister of this aspect of hijab.... and of modest actions.... but it is Allah who will judge her, not you or I..... so remember only to have the intention of helping or guiding..... the trait of judgment is not meant for mankind

asalamwalaikum

Answer 2

Personally, I would say NO she cannot wear hijab and go clubbing. The hijab is not a fashion accessory. It is a whole way of life. The word "hijab" refers to so much more than the scarf around your head. It refers to the clothes you wear, and much more important: the way you behave around other people, the things you bring into the home and the standards you set for yourself. The same is to be said about Jewish headcoverings btw. It's not about wearing a hat or not. It is about WHY one wears it.

And if you want to flirt with boys, go to bars and hang at clubs...then you need to ask yourself why you are wearing the hjiab. Saying that you have it since it's part of your culture is not a valid reason at all; there are millions of Arab or Asian women who are Muslim by faith, yet do not conform to the codes of modesty for women. Just look at the Arabic music channels.

BTW....when I say "you" I don't mean YOU the questioner. I am speaking about Muslim women in general.

Answer 3

She is a misguided Muslim. This is the first time I heard that a Muslim girl who wears Hijab, goes clubbing. How can a Muslim act upon a strict Islamic rule and at the same time does forbidden acts?
I think she wears Hijab because her family forces her to, but she doesn't understand the theme of it. She doesn't know other rules.

1. She is not permitted to go clubbing.
2. She is not permitted to flirt with guys.

So dressing modestly isn't everything.

Answer 4

clubbing isn't the way of life of a Muslim. a night club is a place where a muslim shouldn't be! regardless, whether the muslim is a guy or a girl.

i think she got caught up and confused about Islam. to be in a bar or club to socialise is not okay. there are a lot of other options. BTW, it's okay for a muslim girl to talk with other guys. BUT flirting? is a big NO NO!

as a muslim myself, i never been into a night club even i'm 23 y.o already. i have a few muslim friends who go clubbing.

this clubbing culture is not the way of life for a muslim! be it a man or a woman!

a hijab comes with its etiquette (or known as "adab"). a muslim must be modest!

Answer 5

Sister Alhumdulilah you're dressed in hijab. it's so very primary, it's necessary. Im now not a mother however I is also quickly as I am married. When I am a mother of direction I will put on hijab. I began to put on the small shawl earlier than I even transformed to Islam and in a while after changing my hijab bought better and extra proper in step with quran and sunnah. I began to study salat a couple of weeks earlier than I transformed, however I didnt begin to noticeably maintain my salat duty till I have been muslim 6 months. I love hijab and I cant suppose lifestyles with out it. I could be certain to allow your youngsters recognize that hijab is obiligatory, however don't drive them. I could get the ladies use to practising dressed in it on the mosque by means of age four or five and I could attempt to supply them a well illustration of the best way to get dressed... now not simply overlaying the hair... but in addition now not seeking to exhibit off cosmetic or adornment out facet the house or put on vibrant or tight apparel out facet. I could attempt to educate them shyness and that cosmetic is fleeting and shouldnt be shared with every body. would possibly Allah make us all well moms who can aid our kids to be muslims who obey and love Allah. ameen.

Answer 6

That is very strange for her to be in hijab but go to bars and clubs. Those establishments are usually made for mixing the sexes, drinking, and other haraam things. Tell her to just take the hijab off, she's not a decent example of a hijabi, it's very hypocritical.

Answer 7

NO one is perfect, Faith, being muslim is in the heart of person not on what they wear, and you cannt judge her and said that she is a hypocrite maybe she is trying to become good but she want to live the same way that ppl around her live am not saying that they r bad
At the end she is not an angel, we all make mistakes but it is better to admit
we all ask god to guide her and guide us as well

Answer 8

why would a devout Muslim girl or guy for that matter wanna go to a club in the first place.
we are not allowed to go to clubs where Alcohol is served and people get drunk.

so the answer is No.

Answer 9

Peer presure. She just needs Muslims friends.

Answer 10

that is just hypocrisy, or she is posing herself a good Muslim to her family and relatives, otherwise a Muslim girl can not do like that.