How does she feel about me?

Question

I'm a senior in high school and I've been friends with this girl for 4 years, and have had a crush on her for 2 years. She recently found out I have feelings for her, and now I catch her glancing at me in class, she smiles alot when she talks to me, and initiates conversations with me more. But, she still treats me the same as she does her other guy friends, and she doesnt seem to flirt with me any more than she does her other friends. How does she feel about me?

Answer 1

Well she might be into you or she might not really get how much you like her, you should just swallow the embarrassment and one day just start flirting with her over lunch or when your out together alone or with some friends not a big group, then if she resists flirt with her til she either flirts back and somethin happens or until she speaks up about you look at her. If she looks at u and says somethin about u lookin at her than tell her about how much u wanna take ur friendship to a new level nd try dating and than ask her if she would consider goin out wit u if she says yea or hesitates than pik a place and when u'll b over to get her than take it form there good luck hope this helps i did this once with the same type of situation and i dated the girl for over 2 years, we still talk NOTE: Just remember friends and dating are totally different so if it goes somewhere keep that in mind dont change but dont treat her like shes just a friend if ur serious about dating her than act like it she'll respect that if u do wut u say nd mean. Actions always speak louder than words no matter wut it is.

Answer 2

i would say she likes you. maybe more than those other friends of hers. if she is being a whole lot friendlier than before than that has to mean something. ok, for instance think of yourself. put yourself in her shoes. say your where friends with girl for 4 years and you just found out that she has had a crush on you for the past 2 years. if you like her back than yes of course your going to be more friendly you like the idea. now if you didn't this girl and you where not attracted in any way than you probably wouldn't try to show any attraction back right? so i would suggest that you maybe try talking to her more on the phone where it can lead to you asking her what she thinks about you or what she thinks about you now that she found out that you have had this crush. i say on the phone because then you won't be embarrased to ask anything and you can take the time to ask when you feel the time is right. just don't take to long..lol. also, i wouldn't trip to much on how she is with the other guys. i used to be the same way but if i found out that one that i was not attracted to liked me i would back off a whole lot so they get the idea. see what i mean she did not back off of you instead showed more interest. call her.. unless you have the guts to do it in person. oh and don't feel dumb if she says she is not interested because it sounds like she is still a cool friend and not someone that would spread the conversation. well good luck..

Answer 3

You should just talk to her and tell her how you feel. You will regret it forever if you don't step up and make the move. If you guys are really good friends and she doesn't feel the same then it might be weird for a while but being that you are such good friends then nothing should change dramatically. Just take it slow, maybe don't bombard her at once with everything... Ask her out on a simple date! It works, and that way she won't feel pressured into anything and she can find out for herself how much she likes you! Just take it slow, but it sounds like she's crushing on you to!

Answer 4

dude, u got her man. last year in h.s. i was had the same problem. if yall got the same class. this will work perfectly. start talking to her by sending subliminals (saying somthing but it has a second meaning) and make her feel like she's the stuff . and rite then tell her to hold on a second. then turn and talk to another girl and it will make her feel jealous because your not giving her an attention.she may act like shes mad at u but try to charm her but dont apologize .she will be wanting you to come back to her like u were her man.u might as well b

Answer 5

I would say ask her out on a date and see if she accepts. You could try making it a double date with another couple. Or tell her you have two tickets to a show or to dinner and ask if she would like to accompany you. Maybe you could have a friend try to find out how she feels about you and have them let you know. I hope this helps.

Answer 6

What i think. She had feeling for you to because why would she not flirting with you anymore? Why not you asked her out and and express your feeling towards her. Girls always wanted guys to make the first move. Trust me try it. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Girls often start to smile to guys more when they find out they like them. She may not like you yet but she may in the future. Trust me I am a girl talking From experience.

Answer 8

I think she's starting to have feelings for you too since she knows now that you have feelings for her. She's just not showing it much yet.

Answer 9

ask her how she finds about you.

if her answers are ok, ask her if you can be her bf if you are ready to commit to a relationship.

a relationship is holy.

use care and concern.

mercury of love

Answer 10

lol your in the friend zone sorry buddy i guess you want too long, and btw have you ever seen just friends itll explain it to you lol