Felt like you could love two people at the same time?
2006-11-15 17:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Eastpack69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no man what r u talking about.........in true love this never happens..................and if this thing has happened to u than.........i think either of it is just an infatuation.........or u dont love ur girl truely.............loving 2 people at the same time means,u r not keeping up ur faith n trust..u just cant get along like that..with anybody..right.......think over it once again..........do u think it is really love........as i m pretty unsure....!!!!!!!!this is all about love ......and in that case i believe in a trusting n worthy relationship......love matters.......and true one happens only once........BUT ONE MORE THING IF U R ASKING IN GENERAL...THAN,U CAN LOVE NUMEROUS PEOPLE AT D SAME TIME.............AS I DO LOVE MANY PEOPLE.......BUT when it comes to love.......its only one.........
2006-11-15 17:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that poses an interesting question. What is love then? Is love a need? Do people have different and various needs? Can one person fill all those needs? What if they dont? You meet another that stirs a desire and then fills that desire and need. The other obviously doesn't. But still you fell in "love" with this person first and you still DO love them....they fill a NEED in your life after all. Is that love?
I think love is a concious decision. Life changes constantly, and perhaps our needs do too, and if they do, can one person alway fill them all? I doubt it. But that doesn't mean we should all run out and act on our impulses every time someone might catch your attention or stir a desire. We all have needs. I think we just need to know that we can't have everything we want...at least not without serious consequences and losses. So yes, you can "love" two people at the same time...but it's not wise...and it won't last. Somethings gotta give there, and will, and then you will be the lonely one.
2006-11-16 01:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried that twice and it really sucked because it came to a point when I realized one has different problems than the other while the other was even worse. To be honest, it's really best to stay with just that ONE special person!!!
2006-11-16 01:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by jeweezy2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been involved with two at a time but was not deeply in love with either of them.
2006-11-16 01:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...really I love more than one person if you include family. But the love we have for family is different than the love we feel for the opposite sex.
2006-11-16 01:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Christel P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can have that feeling however love is a strong word my advice to you is get to know both of them more and then decide if there is one you like more
2006-11-16 01:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by streetracer7534 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! yes! yes! omg yes! and i hated that feeling sooo damned much it wasnt even funny I had to let one of em go and im happy with my choice i still love him im just not in love with him =)
2006-11-16 01:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I do.. it hurts alot in the heart and hurt more when you do not know how to deal with it, where both is not know that you are in love with another person
2006-11-16 01:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i'm doing that now . . it's quite intersting . . but i want to say the truth and stop one . . because i'm spoiling a gals life
2006-11-16 01:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by sndn_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. And I seem to be in a minority on this as well.
2006-11-16 01:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋