my sister just discovered we have an ancsetor that was not a good person (*cough* pure evil )
any way i know everything about him so my sister keeps asking me to tell her about him (she wants to know what he was like where he lived etc.) i really dont want to talk about him (im worried what effect it will have on her )(shes only 8 yrs old after all)
should i tell her about him or not
2006-11-15 17:23:32 · 13 answers · asked by lain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just tell her that this person was wrong about the way he lived and she will know everything she want to know when she is ready. Tell her there is time for everything and this person history will not change if she just wait a few more years. she is just a kid don't worry she will find something else to occupy her mind soon.
2006-11-15 17:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by speedy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell her about him.
You do not have to go into great detail on every little thing. But by telliing her you are letting her know the way people feel about evil people. And it may help make decisions in life. If more people were honest with children they wouldn't have to experience the nasty dark side of people with out knowing a little about it before hand. Some of the information that you tell her may save her from getting hurt by other people like him.
2006-11-15 17:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by kara25701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 00:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell her e truth... maybe u can ends of the story by telling her: anyway that is ur ancestor owe life n is already in the past! At least she wldnt bother much abt it if u can make her understand tat it definitely got nothg to do w/ both of you ( I hope...).
2006-11-15 17:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by y t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her a few things, but wait until she is older and can have a deeper understanding to tell her all.
2006-11-15 17:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by tmjd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's to young right now! tell her when she turns 16
2006-11-15 17:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell her. Just say that he was a bad person and that if she knew she might turn bad like him. Please don't tell her anything against your better judgement.
2006-11-15 17:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kayari of Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't subject her to anyone relative or not that you consider evil.
2006-11-15 17:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to ask you when she is older and you will then tell her all about him.
2006-11-15 17:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will find out when she gets older.
2006-11-15 17:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋