Here is my story. I have been liking this girl for about two months I believe. She is not that attractive physically, but I thought she was smart and cool. She was quite nice to me at first, but it is so hard for me to talk to her. She snubs me sometimes. unsure y. Today I tried to talk to her after class. She was walking back to her room quickly. Here is how the conversation went.
Me: Hey
Girl: What?
Me: How are you?
Girl: (looking at me with a mad look) Do I look like I am in the mood to talk to you? I'm so tired!!!!
I was so shocked. I said "I'm sorry" immediately. She apologized later, but I still can't forget the way she treated me. I saw her again when I went to my TA for help on my math hw. I tried to initiate a conversation, but she was cold toward me again. I was gonna ask her to hang out with her this weekend, but oh well. My friends say she obviously has no respect for me and is very bitchy. My question is, is this a complete *****? Or is it me who needs some change
2006-11-15 17:07:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is one of those women who can change on a moments notice and you cant see it coming. Run dude RUN. Dont even go near her. She sounds like a rude self centered psychopath to me. You sound like a nice guy so go look for a nice girl who will treat you with respect and caring.
2006-11-15 17:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume it was you by any means. She obviously was having a bad day OR she thinks its cute to be rude and that it gets her attention. Hopefully at some point she'll apologize, but don't give it too much thought, its not worth it. I can never figure out why most the people I come accross during the day behave the way they do........and there is NO WAY i'm going to accept the responsibility of ruining everyones moods....No thanx to that, I've got my own problems!
2006-11-16 01:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a girl who is NOT worth your time and effort. You sound like a really sweet guy, so I think you should find a girl who deserves you, and forget this one. The funny part is, if you do find another girl and stop paying attention to this one, then this one will probably start doing more to get YOUR attention back, because she won't like the fact that another girl was able to steal your attention from her( she sounds pretty conceited to me, by the way). If you DO find someone else and she this girl tries to get you back where you were, DON'T DO IT. Chances are, she's always gonna be like this to you no matter what you try to do to please her!
2006-11-16 01:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you yaar.how u treat the situation matters the most..tell me first,do u just like her or love her...or else it was just a matter of hanging out.........??????????because it is all about that....if u really like her than,it doesnt matterr,,,,,,but yes..as rerspect is most important thing u can ask 4 in any relationship-from friendship to any thing else......n thats why its all about ur attitude.....if that girl cant respect u than how can u expect a good relationship with u.....but this is only one side story,other thing can b.........she may not b feeling well about u......then why should u care man.....u tried ur time...now let her do.......dont make ur life complicated........keep it simple.......but yes dont let that man ego come to ur mind if she wants a conversation..........but one more thing dont even think to have a change in ur self,,,u seem to b a nice guy.....n if she cant accept u theway u r then she doesnt deserve to b with u......u r good enough.may b she is not.........dont think much.......stay smiling
2006-11-16 01:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by liferocks786 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the one being a B. You tried being nice to her, but she is being cold to you. people who act like that get no where in life because nobody can stand to be around them. i am sure there are plenty of girls out there who will be nicer. kudos to you for being nice enough to not care too much about her looks. I know you said she was not attractive physically, but even is she had a smoking body, acting that way makes her very ugly.
2006-11-16 01:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY GOD! Wake up! She's a *****! 1st of all when u said hey, then she said what? that right there to me was...."ur bothering me.get lost" She woulda said hey! or hi! not what? Drop her a** b4 it even starts. If ya really wanna see if she may b is interested...ignore her. Treat her the same way if she tries to talk to u. Girls always want what they can't have. If she comes running then u 'll know but don't kiss her butt!
2006-11-16 01:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah homeboy it's her. but if you like her and want to get to know here better. you need to let her know that and don't allow her the chance to be a b..... just put it out there and let the chips fall. if everything turns out good, cool. if not oh well you tried and you can move on.
2006-11-16 01:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by jahrells 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to change just because someone doesn't like you. I think that you do need to leave this person alone though, they obviously don't appreciate your company so you're better off finding someone who does.
2006-11-16 01:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im a girl so let me remind you of something...PMS. ring a bell?? if she is constantly bitchy ask her whats wrong in a nice way.... if you still like her and want to get to know her you need her to open up to you. soo by asking her whats wrong she might open up to you.. maybe something big is bugging her and she needs someone to complain to....
2006-11-16 01:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by lindsey b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she was having a bad day if she's nice to you normally then thats probably it but if she's usually like this shes a total *****
2006-11-16 01:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋