I am a 17 year old girl, and I am starting to become worried that I'm asexual (and by that, I mean not having an attraction to men, women, or animals - sexual orientation. I don't mean potato budding or amoebas). I've never had a crush on anybody and I'm tired of the media revolving around relationships, boy/girlfriends, sex, love, etc. I've already had one exfriend voice that to me, since I never wanted to talk about guys with her, but that's not why I'm worried. I don't have any friends, (never have had any), nobody has ever asked me out, no guy has ever displayed any kind of interest in me, and I am 5'10 and I feel manly and not "feminine". Although I am curious about sex itself, because it seems like it would feel good...but I don't get that ooh lala "wow he's hot" crush. Ever. Help?
2006-11-15 17:02:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am absolutely not attracted to girls at all. I'd have sex with a guy (just for the sex) but I would never do that with a girl.
2006-11-15 17:15:11 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with you. Maybe there is just nobody that you see that catches your eye. Personally, I am not interested in anybody right now either. The last time I was attracted to somebody was 5 years ago. It will happen when the time is right.
2006-11-17 15:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal, and I'm guessing that you are very smart and mature and ahead of your peers in some ways, and what you are experiencing is the wisdom of knowing that a "real relationship" is practically impossible while you are still in high school...but it is practice for the rest of your life. I'm not saying that high school relationships don't exist, but only a small percentage of them last a long time, and you have other things to do with that energy right now. Don't feel pressured, in time you will have that attraction to someone, and don't hurry it, because this is the time in your life you should be focusing on yourself. Good luck girl!
2006-11-15 17:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are feeling manly but you want to experience sex I think that you could be a late bloomer or a lesbian. Try having sex with a guy first and make sure that he is good at it. You might just find it very enjoyable.
2006-11-15 17:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt like that before but i can tell when i'm attracted to guys and i know i am. I'm not sure about the whole never had a crush thing just find someone you trust and talk to them about it.
2006-11-15 17:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 18. baby nothings wrong with u it's normal when you meet a man charming as myself (and you will) he will make you feel special. you will start developing emotions for him and you will love it. but if you feel like this you just keep being around the ordinary males and you will know when you find that stand out guy ok.
2006-11-15 17:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Meta~4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way...due to physical abuse by my brother when i was little...he use to beat the crap out of me...and READILY ADMITS IT....and now i am not interested...so i think i am Asexual...it is not so bad,,,,i am use to it!!!
2006-11-15 17:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry as for somepeople the awakening will be slow . but you will have your place in sun in course of time
2006-11-15 17:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong iwth you. you will like guys when the time is right. worry about your education and your career
2006-11-16 01:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor.
2006-11-15 17:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could be a lesbian. How do you feel about girls? Don't worry about it. You haven't yet met your type.
2006-11-15 17:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋