Ok, so there is a dance coming up at my school and this guy keeps hinting that he wants to go with me and he is kinda sorta cute but not really and I don't really want to go with him. He texted me and asked if I had a date to the dance yet and I don't have one yet but i don't want to lie and say I do so he will stop asking me and I don't want to tell him that I don't have a date yet cause then he will for sure ask me and I don't want to hurt his feelings by saying that I don't want to go with him. If I say that I don't want to go with him though he will stop bugging me about it and he will be able to find another date in time since he knows that I am not intrested. What should I do?
2006-11-15 17:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by Shipoopi L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and tell him that you don't want to go with him.
2006-11-15 17:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, politely and kindly, "no thank you". Will his feelings be hurt? Probably. Rejection sucks. But, he'll get over it. Will you feel better about being honest? Definitely. And, ultimately, he'll feel better that he didn't end up at a dance with someone that obviously just said "yes" to avoid hurting his feelings.
Do the right thing for both of you.
2006-11-16 01:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2006-11-16 01:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by kennerkitty812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋