My 2 yr old niece said that he hit her several times, when I took her with me on vaction. She did have marks but he completely denied touching her.
2006-11-15 16:43:19 · 14 answers · asked by Moe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My son is only a baby and I dont trust the father at all.
2006-11-15 17:22:28 · update #1
yes, she was with the both of us, but I had gone to the bathroom. I was gone for about 10 mins. When I came back she was crying histerically and he had told me that she had fallen off the wall she was playing on. She didnt tell me that he hit her until later.
2006-11-15 17:26:37 · update #2
There is no custody order! He doesnt pay child support.
2006-11-16 03:27:26 · update #3
can you say violation of a child custody order. the judge will not be happy with you.
2006-11-15 19:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by King Midas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the start, you isn't in any problem given the situation. baby advocates for the state are first attracted to conserving toddlers secure; the father's visitation is a miles off 2nd in a difficulty like this. What i do no longer understand is how the courts might enable your son on my own along with his father in that environment if the visits have been court ordered to be supervised??? Did the order replace, and if so why, if the comparable little boy became into there and no help has been given to the baby who has the problem? there are so plenty greater questions right here than solutions, yet i might inform you that it is your precise to guard your baby and you have executed no longer something that could point out otherwise. i does not have an argument along with his father taking me returned to court; i might as a count number of actuality be asking the court why his visits are actually not to any extent further supervised if the father nevertheless needs to stay in this destructive environment. advantages.....
2016-10-04 00:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first priority is to keep your son safe. If you sincerely feel that allowing him to see his father will put him in a dangerous situation, you have every reason to keep him from visiting, unless the visit will be supervised by another trusted friend or relative. However, I believe that biological dads have a legal right to visitations unless you get a court order stating otherwise. I would do this as soon as possible.
2006-11-15 16:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by MtnBlossom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what u think is right!
Protect ur son from what is not good for him...if that includes his father then so be it!!
Once he is old enough to know why u stopped visits then he can make a decision for himself!!
You can only do so much, but ur kids are always first priority!!
Keep up the good work hun!!
Take care =D
2006-11-15 16:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lady whatever you do if you have that feeling and your motherly instincts are telling you not to let him see the baby then do so. Your job is to protect your son and your niece not consider how he feels out of the ordeal. Please do not put yourself in a bad situation because if something bad happens you will not forgive yourself. Trust your instincts let them be your guide.
2006-11-15 17:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by wise 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it to court and a supervised visitation with a legal personnel only then slowly work it out make him know you are not joking and the first sign of abuse to your son or any other child again send his @$$ to jail no questions asked.
2006-11-15 17:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. No way should you leave your baby with someone who hits kids. Expecially if he doesnt even support you. He doesnt even deserve to see his kid if he cant support it. Have you read the newspapers these days about children who are killed by their dads or step dads because they wouldnt stop crying etc. Forget it..be safe and if you dont trust him follow that gut insinct to the max. Its way better to be safe then sorry, and if the deadbeat loser cant even support his baby then he doesnt even deserve to see it.
2006-11-16 10:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no it is your right to protect your son but it is your sons right to see his father.
Try and arrange it that he sees your son with you and don't leave them alone also your niece was with you both when on vacation I'm sure you would of known then if he touched her
2006-11-15 17:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by arianasdad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree you should trust your gut. If your son asks to see his father, create situations where he can visit him in your presence. (Invite him to his birthday party, school play, go to McDonald's together, etc.) If you really suspect harmful behavior that is unsubstantiated, just inundate him with constant needs (he needs new shoes, he needs to go to the dentist, he needs a new coat, he needs something for school, he needs medicine, he needs to go to the library ...... )and he'll make himself scarce.
All children need their fathers. If you think he has values that would benefit your son, see if he is willing to get counseling.
2006-11-15 16:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by Maddy Waddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in most cases childeren should be aloud to see their fathers. but if the man is abusive then no. why risk having him hurt your son. yes its his father, but your sons well being comes first and if thats whats best for him then you should keep him away from him.
2006-11-15 16:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dungonecrazy11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋