Two guys asked me to e-mail them nude photos of mine, but I told them I do NOT take such pictures. I sent them a regular one instead, but they still asked for a nude one. After I turned down their request, they stopped writing. I'd like to ask people, especially guys, if I'm a wet blanket. Why or why not? Also, is it a turn-off for guys when women refuse to send them their nude photos?Thanks for sharing your view points with me.
p.s. I'm a woman.
2006-11-15 16:37:57 · 25 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok...
1. those guys are pretty desperate and it's pretty sad, if you ask me, if they can't find women face to face
2. you are not a wet blanket. that was actually an admirable thing to do. If you don't want to take nude pictures for people, that is something you believe in and you should not stray from that viewpoint. It's your morals and your life. You do with it as you see fit.
3. To mature men, it is not a turn off. On the contrary, it is something proper and a sign that they're talking to a mature woman, which, in both cases of men and women, are becoming scarce these days.
4. It was probably better off that you didn't talk to them any more because all they wanted to do was to make a personal porn star out of you. If that was not your intention, then it is best for you not to associate with people of that nature.
Follow your beliefs and don't do anything you feel is uncomfortable.
Hope this helps!
ps: this is a guy speaking
2006-11-15 16:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a wet blanket. But those guys sound like creeps.
I am also a girl. I have been asked for nude photos.
I swim topless in my pool, and most of my friends and family have seen me topless. My close family see me nude often (I walk from my room to the bathroom every morning nude). But absolutely no one takes a photo of me unless I am fully dressed. And no way would I send topless or nude photos to anyone.
When I swim I have control over who sees me topless and when. If I finish swimming and get dressed then the show is over. If I let someone take my photo, I lose that control. No matter how much I trust them, I still can't control what happens to that image.
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2006-11-16 06:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, wake up! Your not a "wet blanket", but u will be a "popular" girl if you start passing nude photos.Its actually a turn-off if a girl behaves like a slu* by passing her nude photos around, they will only end up being posted on the Internet, so think twice and don't be foolish.Guys who stop e-mailing you cause they didn't get your picture, only gave up, cause all they want is to see you nude...You want to chat, join a "chat room". I am all Man and yes darling we are all pigs!
2006-11-16 01:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by zinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I wouldn't ask a woman for a nude photo because I don't disrespect them. But these guys are just jackasses so don't make a big deal about it.
2006-11-16 00:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care if guys thought you were a wet blanket? You don't give nude photos of yourself to anyone; pay attention to famous couples who have broken up and what happens to their personal private photos. As a "woman" you're not here to please men according to their specifications. Unless you don't mind your picture being posted online and share w/ all their friends.
2006-11-16 00:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by uknowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would two guys be asking for that at the same time?Depending on your age? I wouldn't be that suspicious if it were someone you were dating for sometime but two guys asking tells me you are of school age and the fact that TWO guys are asking at the same time! Red Flag... If you do that then you might find them all over the place and everyone at school will be getting a sneak peak! You made the right decision, Tell them to buy a playboy if they want to look at naked girls!
2006-11-16 00:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Emmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, do NOT send nudey pics of you over the internet. The losers that want that stuff, will just file it away in the "spank bank" and distribute them all over the internet for other losers and their "spank banks". duHHH! Don't be so gullible. You're not a wet blanket, you're smart. If they don't email you back, its cuz they're disrespectful schmucks who just want to get laid.
2006-11-16 00:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Design Kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do you even care if you are a "wet blanket"? Don't you find the request of nudie pics to be rather crass?
So what if they stop writing. If that's all they wanted, then good riddance.
2006-11-16 00:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
*** you're not a wet blanket. these guys were only after one thing...a nude photo of u. once they got it they'd have been gone anyways.
2006-11-16 00:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by meme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't a "wet blanket" these guys are just wankers wanting to jack off to your pic because they cant get a real live woman to get naked for them... so why should you!
Move on.. they are dirty gross nasty pigs anyway
2006-11-16 00:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by i'm just a girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋