i am a chinese. All the while i insist to keep my virginity until i get marry. All my friends laughing at me and my ex boy friend left me also because he can't stand me on that. Am i borned in a wrong century? i am already 26, will i because of this reason caused me can't get a boy friend?
2006-11-15 16:31:07 · 8 answers · asked by Secret Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right to stay a virgin until marriage. Stay the course. Ignore criticism or mocking.
2006-11-15 16:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i respect you for standing strong so long, thru so many years and not losing it. I agree with what my mother says, guys will respect you more. And trust me when the time is right you will find a great boyfriend who will love u n respect your wishes to stay a virgin till ur married. It also shows that ur ex just wants sex and not you. Besides u can always uhm have other "games" to spice up the fun with ur bf without losing ur virginity.
2006-11-15 16:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by lipzykins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong. Just dont care about other people opinion. As long as you love being a virgin, do so, it is your decision. If you are doing it just because of your culture, religion or other outside factors, think about it. It might not your decision at all, but of your society. Dont listen to others, listen to your self. How you want it to be? How do you feel about it? have an honest answer, just ignore others opinion. If you love being a virgin, good. If you'll love sex, go on. Only what makes you happy, is what matters. To hell with them...
2006-11-15 16:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Alx 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good for you! you should be proud of yourself. do not let any body change your mind. your ex must not be very much of a person and soes not deserve you and what you have to offer. and your friends are most likely jealour because they could not hang on to it. you have a great gift, keep it wrapped up until the time is right.
2006-11-15 16:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is honorable and when you walk down that isle with that white dress on, which stands for purity, you will honestly feel worthy. Be your own woman and do what you think is right, let your friends laugh all they want to.
2006-11-15 16:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to keep your virginity until you get married. it's very noble and very respectable. dont listen to anyone who tells you that you are wrong for your decision. I'm proud of you for it, cuz not many girls do so these days.
2006-11-15 16:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a good man perhaps of the faith would take this a blessing from god that you value your body and are keeping it sacred for your wedding nigh.Sex is just sex,however when you find the man who has similar beliefs to your own you will be thankful that you stuck to your guns their a man out there who would deeply treasure you,just try looking in a faith based area
2006-11-15 16:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by resigned 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's cool. Not very common these days.
2006-11-15 16:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋