Does that mean he has financial problems? He told me he moved back in with his parents to save up to buy some property..but can't someone save up money & be able to live on their own? Do you think he has debt that he's not telling me about? We have been dating but not serious yet, and I'm thinking this is the very thing that is holding him back on commiting to me. What do you think? Is he embarrassed to tell me he might have debt, but then pay it off, then get serious with me?
2006-11-15 16:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him time. Take it slow. Life is expensive nowadays. If he is trying to get ahead it could mean he is very sensible. And what if he does have a debt. When we are young and going out into the world, its easy to rack up debt while trying to get by. Whatever the reason it sounds like he is doing the right thing by trying to bring down his monthly expenses.
2006-11-16 02:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way anyone could possibly know the answer. It really could be anything. He could be in debt. He could be lying. He could be helping out his parents. He might be able to live alone and buy a house but is saving up for a better investment. I wouldnt assume he's a loser. I have a friend who is 30 and makes very good money and lives at home. In doing so he has bought two seperate homes as investments and will make a lot of money off those houses. So really.......it could be anything and only you can find out.
2006-11-15 16:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by wizexel22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably putting his would be rent money back to save for property down payment. I would keep seeing him but Dont let him move in with you! Im sure that would keep him from committing if he can't take care of himself then how would he be able to take care of the two of you. I wouldn't worry to much about it until the relationship starts getting serious. For the time being have fun & keep seeing him. The better you get to know him the more you will learn about him and his situation! Good Luck
2006-11-15 16:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Emmi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently it's too early in your dating to know such intimate details. If he's kind and kind to his parents...probably the latter you dont even know yet! Chill out and ask a few questions about his relationship with his folks and such.
Meet his parents. I think this is the country where men are expected to leave the nest...its a cultural thing to worry that he's got money troubles because of that...but you dont know him well enough to assume anything yet. Give it some time. Peace.
2006-11-15 16:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on where the property is. Around here a home costs about $800,000.00 so it could very well be that he is trying to save enough to purchase a home. Maybe YOU should go out pricing properties and find out just how much it costs. There are alot of things to consider when making such a purchase, not just the cost itself.
2006-11-15 17:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
*** u wanna get serious w/ a guy u don't trust? hmmmm, that sounds blissful. could be that he IS lying to u... do u want him to pay off his debt and then get serious w/ u? u want to spend your life w/ a liar? on the other hand he COULD be telling u the truth. lots of people DO live on their own and save $$$. thing is, maybe he wants to do it faster? then again, maybe he just misses his mama? talk to the boy... what's your gut telling u?
2006-11-15 16:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser and a possible Mama's boy. He should have too much pride and self respect to still be with his parents at his age. And they are fools to take him in. Think carefully before you get more involved in this situation. Whatever you do, don't loan him any money.
2006-11-15 16:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, way. GET OUT OF THERE
2006-11-15 16:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Drop his ***. He is cheating on you.
2006-11-15 16:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋