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My hubby is my 1st love in my life. We been 2gether for 8 yrs and have 2 wonderful kids. My marriage is bad for the last 15months but i try to work it out. He always on the computer and didn't care about me and the kids, I slept in the room alone and waiting for him all night long. The past 2 months I found out that he is seeking for women in my area for wild sex on adult website. And few days ago I checked his email, I know that he might be cheating on me with some other women early this yr. But whenever i asked him do he cheat on me, He always say "NO". But it been 15 months in the bad marriage, I'm very tired and I ready to give it up. But I really love my kids, I wanted them to have a daddy. I always give my hubby many chance, But always disappointed. So i told him that if I don't make him happy then he should be with someone whomake him happy. But please don't get divorce and wait until the kids is older. Now I don't love him any more. Should open marriage is the good idea for now

2006-11-15 15:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by prettysweetrite 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I agree with Jen U. And I am sorry, but open marriages is a contradiction in terms, If you want to bang wahtever comes along, stay single. Marriage is aboiut a committed relationship to one person. If you can't hack it get out.... but really, this isn't what you want anyway. It's what he wants and you just gave up and let him do it.

Your children may need thier daddy, but they also need thier mom to be a strong role model, not a door mat. Find your backbone, get a good lawyer and get a divorce. When you are ready, you'll find someone who apreciates you. Be strong. Good luck.

2006-11-16 16:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1 0

Please don't use the kids as an excuse to stay in a marriage that is not working. There is nothing good in this situation for anyone. Work out the problems in the relationship or move on. What kind of example do you want to set for your kids, it's okay to stay in a bad marriage and sleep around?

2006-11-16 00:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 1 0

I'd love to have an open marriage--3 or 4 men around the house to take care of my needs, of course they would not be allowed to have anyone else in their lives!

2006-11-16 00:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0 0

Open marriages only work for loving, mature, committed, open minded couples able to communicate. You don't fit that category. You are letting him date, but as soon as that other woman wants him to move in, he'll be gone.

2006-11-16 00:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 1

In anwer to the opening question No

2006-11-16 00:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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