so my girlfriend of 2 years left to europe for 2 months and i've been cheating on her with her best friend. We have sex almost everyday sometimes even more than once.I love my girlfriend but her best friend is really hot and is willing to do whatever i want in bed. me n her best friend have amazing sex but i feel she just using me to get back @ my g/f. would it be wrong if i kept a relationship with my g/f but continued to use her best friend just for sex? and who do u think i should choose between my girlfriend who is richer and smarter and funnier or her friend who does whatever i want and is much hotter?
2006-11-15 15:41:30 · 15 answers · asked by backinaflashmanyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really do love my girlfriend and i'd trade everything i have for her... what im really asking is... is it possible for me and my girlfriend to still have a successful relationship?
2006-11-15 15:56:09 · update #1
this is just too stupid to comprehend
2006-11-15 15:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize for stating it as such but I find that this is just a question too ignorant of leaving the mind!!! This should have never been expressed to another being much less, posted on the web(which is WORLD WIDE) must I remind you!!! It's wrong to use anyone for anything and definitely if they're being used for your own sick sexual pleasures. You are not deserving of the girlfriend you used to have who has stuck by your side despite your lack of morality or intelligence and has probably left to better herself. You should call it quits with your girlfriend before she finds out and flips out on both you and her s'posed to be best friend and you should stick with the no-life sex-toy you've found b/c you two were obviously made-to-meet!!!
2006-11-15 23:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by MACH3LL3MYB3LL3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm,from a womans perspective,my own oppinion is you might as well stay with the friend.....
You done already screwed up,your breaking the trust that was there,Why even proceed to hurt your girl,by staying with her,once you've broke the trust...things will never go back to the same.Do you even care about either of them?? I noticed at the end you put your girl is richer smarter funnier,all the other girl has is looks.
2006-11-15 23:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Spazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really serious?
It might be in your best interest for the two of them to chunk you to the curb instead of your girlfriend to be stupid enough to want to continue her so-called relationship with you.
That way, you just might have a chance to learn a lesson or two here -- namely that women are human beings and are not the sexual playthings you think they are and that maybe a little time alone might wisen you up to the fact that you are, at this point, selfish and boorish and maybe, just maybe, you might have a chance to grow up out of your infancy.
If this sounds like too much of a challenge for you, then do us all a favor and keep your mitts to yourself -- there is no self-respecting woman out there who deserves the likes of you.
2006-11-15 23:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Not an easy one. You need to start thinking with your big head not the little one down stairs. Having said that, I know many couples who have survived through affairs. It really depends on your girlfriend and how much work you're really willing to put in. Best of luck!
2006-11-15 23:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it's not wrong. And yeah, sure, keep a relationship and have sex on the side with as many girls as you want. And yeah, it's good to use people for sex only, and yeah, go for a girl who's rich, and the girl who is smart, and pick another to be the hot one.
You are so full of yourself.
2006-11-15 23:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry but i think this has got to be one of the dumbest and most selfish questions i have read. are you sure you really want our help?
man if you really love your gf (and i conclude that you don't), you won't have sex with her best friend or even with any other girl.
I hope your gf bumps her head hard and realizes what an A.S.S.H.O.L.E. and cheat you are. and finds out about what you & her so-called 'bestfriend' is doing. and i hope she dumps you ASAP. if she doesn't, i'm sure there are lots of people here who would gratefully wake her up and make her realize it.
2006-11-15 23:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP BEING ***. IF YOU ARE WITH THIS
PERSON BECAUSE YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS OUT OF COUTRY
FOR 2 MONTHS, AND YOU SLEEPING WITH HER FRIIEND
BECAUSE SHE HOT. AND YOU NEED HELP, YOU ARE
A LOSER AND SHE NEED TO KNOW THAT, IF YOU DONT
WANT TO BE WITH HER THEN BE HONEST WITH HER.
AS FOR THE FRIEND IF SHE REALLY WAS A FRIEND
SHE WOULD NOT HAVE DONE THIS EITHER, BOTH
OF YOU ARE LOSERS.
2006-11-15 23:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you're doing would really hurt your girlfriend. your girlfriend sounds like a much better bet. if you really love your girlfriend, you have to stop cheating on her.
2006-11-15 23:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like u already traded her for sex
2006-11-16 01:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sanjay P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS CRAZY YOU NEED TO DO WHAT YOU WANT BUT TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE SHE WILL END UP FINDING OUT FROM HER (FRIEND) EITHER WAY SHE WILL END UP HURT HOW CAN YOU CALL YOUR SELF A BOYFRIEND YOUR A LOSER.
2006-11-15 23:46:57 · answer #11 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋