Isn't HOLDING HANDS with someone that isn't your BF or GF CHEATING!?

Question

My friend was holding hands with a guy today & later she said something to me & i said Yeah at least im not cheating on my bf! & she was all like its not cheating! & she told me later not to tell her bf about her holding the other guy's hand cuz she said it wasn't a big deal. but if it wasn't a big deal and it meant nothing and it "isn't cheating" then why can't her BF find out? & i told her she could have just pulled her hand away from his. but she said that would be rude. but isn't holding hands with another guy rude to her BF?
What im really asking is How many of you think holding hands with someone that isn't your BF or GF is cheating?
Do you think i was wrong for saying she was cheating on her bf to her?
~Thanx~

Answer 1

Ur frnd is fooling around and playing with 2 guys.. Wht u know.. in front of u shez jus holding... how may u come to know, whtz going on behind.. Do u stay with ur frnd 24/7 ?? If she wasn't cheating then she wud have let her BF know. But here shez telling u not to tell her BF abt it, coz it isn't a big deal.. But in reality she is lying and wants all this to be hidden from her boyfriend. I think u shud tell her BF abt it, also tell him tht she said it isn't a big deal n all.. Now its upto them, how they will handle with each other. Coz things r to be made clear within relationship. U cant hide anything, when u r committed. I think ur frnd is cheating, and u shud tell her BF abt it. Bye.

Answer 2

I don't think you were wrong at all to say something to her, and she obviously knew she shouldn't have been doing it if she asked you not to say anything to her boyfriend.

It's not right to do hold another guy's hand unless it's jokingly. Like playing around skipping down the hallway or something. But to just be holding some other guys' hand casually, isn't being very true to her boyfriend.

But I don't know if I'd call it cheating, you could say it's betrayal. She’s betraying her boyfriend by acting this way with another guy, but not necessarily cheating.

Answer 3

To me in a certain way is cheating, because first you have to respect your bf/gf , you might not be cheating on him but he might think that you are cheating on him...... If you saw him holding hands with another girl what would you think???

Answer 4

If he grew to become into pleased along with his Fiance he would not have reported those issues to you and characteristic emotions. protecting hands with somebody no remember what's a manner of connecting....i in my opinion think of thats crossing the line. i do no longer think of he will pop suddenly and tell his female buddy approximately it. i've got faith undesirable for his Fiance

Answer 5

Holding hands is still a sign of affection, so ya its cheating but to a lesser degree.

Answer 6

Cheating happens in the mind, expressed outwardly by holding hands.

So yes, cheating is holding hands. It is also more then that, but at your stage in life, it doens't matter.

Cheating is cheating.

Answer 7

Yes its cheating and she didn't want you to tell him because she knows that it is and is trying to keep her bf from finding out.

CHEATERS SUCK

Answer 8

it sounds like to me it is a form of cheating. no telling what they have been doing before you saw them.
and yes you should tell her boyfriend. for she might have a disease that she caught from yhis other guy and not know it.

Answer 9

THE ONLY GUY BESIDES MY BF THAT I HOLD HANDS WITH IS MY BEST GUY FRIEND AND THATS ONLY BECAUSE QWE HAVE ALWAYS DONE THAT EVEN BEFORE I WENT OUT WITH MY BF SO IT HASNT CHAGED! i THINK UR FRIEND IS CHEATING FOR HOLDONG HANDS IS SOMEHTING U SO WITRH THEPERSON U CARE ABOUT MOST.....OR UR SISTER

Answer 10

Well, if she doesn't want you to tell her boyfriend, then I would think it's cheating.