I've been wondering the same thing...but I suppose it's because the "anorexic sluts" puts it out there.
2006-11-15 15:43:21
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answered by j -cold 2
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Great question...there would be 50% less divorces if people listened to you. Here goes my attempt to answer this:
No one tells a guy how to pick out a woman. It's rare for a father, grandfather, Uncle or older brother to put his arm around the younger man and say "kid here's how to pick em."
Then go on to say that the best keepers are the women you described. That love with them often grows beyond a quick roll in the hay to the deepest friendship and more. That often these women speak direct, are honest, play less games, are more sincere, more adaptable to life's ups and downs, listen better and really care about the guy's heart and soul.
And that the stuck up annoying women, who can appear more visually stunning, often tend to be the biggest pain in the ****. That these are the ones who tend to play head games, talk indirectly, both love and hate men, use their body/appearance more than their minds/hearts, are more shallow, divorce men when they lose their job, don't let fathers see their children after divorce and generally give men heart attacks.
"So son...which woman do you really want? A woman who likes you for you. Or a woman who likes you for your car/job/other?"
Rather, the guy with hormones raging, asks ten women (if he is brave enough) to a dance. Nine say no and he ends up with the tenth. He's operating on some caveman level a million years old...and picks a brunette or blond or redhead that fits some unknown picture in his unconscious.
Since the guy NEEDS to have sex, he does whatever he can. And physical appearance counts as much for men as having money/power/position does for women.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-15 16:07:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Becausse boys, especially teenage boys, care about appearance first, status second, and personality last. If a girl is pretty and skinny they want to go out with her. If that same girl was completely unpopular, had no friends, and no one liked her, the same guy wouldn't even want to be seen near her. Guys like pretty, popular girls. Then comes personality. You can tell it's not to important. A girl who is nice and smart but a little chubby will not have as much as the pretty, popular, skinny, b*t*h. Boys who aren't all that popular want to be popular so they think if they have a popular, good looking girl they will become popular. I've noticed guys like real social, kind, confident girls who are also pretty.
2006-11-15 15:44:56
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answered by Anonymous
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As of mother of 4 boys i can tell you that boys are dumb lol. I really believe that girls who think they are pretty seem to get the guys. Don't get me wrong some of these girls are not pretty but they believe they are so they put out that signal. Looking good and feeling good go hand in hand. But in the end and as a person ages they realize that true beauty is only skin deep. So if your only looking at the cutes and most poplar boys then you are also over looking the cream of the crop. Remember that some of the nices people may not be the best looking!
2006-11-15 15:49:36
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answered by texasue77 2
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Looks attract ... that's why a guy goes physical !!! Smart guys think before they act ! They see a girl that appeals to them, then, the guy thinks " if I can go with her, what is her personality like?" - Is she a bi*ch - or is she an easy on me type of personality. Ever hear the expression, nice staircase but nothing in the attic ? !!! Well; that is what a smart guy can see through. Dumb guys have their sex and put up with all the immature behaviour - because they can not get anything better !!!
2006-11-15 15:50:15
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answered by guraqt2me 7
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Its because guys have that natural attraction for girls and they get carried away with the physical side of things. Most guys though acctually deep down want a girl that's right for them and not just sex and stuff. It's true! They are just all confused and don't know where to go (even if they act like they know what they're doing). I'm a regular guy (who is attracted to girls) so I know. Good question, hope I helped somewhat.
2006-11-15 15:42:20
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answered by The Pizzaman 1
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i have been looking for a quote i herd the other day for about 30 minutes now... it's very intresting and it gives a good perspective of how men think...i found it~!!!!!!!
GIRLS ARE LIKE APPLES
ON TREES. THE BEST ONES
ARE AT THE TOP OF THE TREE
THE BOYS DONT WANT TO REACH
FOR THE GOOD ONES BECAUSE THEY
ARE AFRAID OF FALLING AND GETTING HURT INSTEAD THEY JUST GET THE ROTTON APPLES FROM THE GROUND THAT ARENT AS GOOD, BUT EASY SO THE APPLES AT THE TOP THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM WHEN IN REALITY THEY ARE AMAZING THEY JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT BOY TO COME ALONG THE ONE WHO IS BRAVE ENOUGH TO CLIMB ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP OF THE TREE!
2006-11-15 16:40:34
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answered by tiffany 2
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Most boys can only see skin deep. There's going o be at least one person for her in her life, though. there's always one guy or girl that can see past looks and into the soul. There was a fat girl (I'm not gonna lie) who asked me to dance with her at a dance & I said no. It wasn't because she's like 180 lb, It was because I didn't know her all tha well. She is really nice though.
2006-11-15 15:44:32
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answered by Lynn 1
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if you choose a bad person at the first place then it is easier to ditch her, because he will b having strong reason that she is bad.and then he can go in for the good kind of girl or may be another bad girl so that he can ditch her tooo. and so he can hav a hell lot of experiences
2006-11-15 15:45:16
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answered by Anonymous
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for the same reason that most nice girls pick Jocks that only want to drink beer watch Foot ball and beat there wives.
2006-11-15 15:41:36
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answered by Anonymous
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