am so tired of being hurt, am tired of allowin him over and over again to hurt me, am mad that even though he keeps hurting me i still have luv for him. sometimes i know deep down that he loves me too, but then why does he choose to ignore me sometimes. we have been together 2 yrs, brok up for a yr and tryin to make things work again, but he is hurtin me again, am tired of cryin, i wish it stop, but then when am without him am just as miseralble, iw ish i could get over him, i wish i didn't feel the way i feel about him, i wish i quit cryin, cause am tired
2006-11-15 15:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by juslovepink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you don't need that. Seriously. Anybody who truly loves you would not hurt you. You sound like a very hurt, intelligent, bright, smart girl. If someone is hurting you, you need to not deal with that. Explain to him the problem, then leave. If a year's worth of work didn't help, I think it's time.
Good luck. Remember what I said: Anybody who truly loves you would not hurt you.
2006-11-15 15:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by OnlineFeline♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go when you are ready. When? You will know yourself best when. Everyone has limit. There will be a day that you think you've had enough, believe me. Time will heal you. Don't forget to take care of your own heart. Life is too short to live miserably.
Good Luck.
2006-11-15 23:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you CAN get over him is if YOU allow yourself to. IF you are as tired of it as you say you are then END it. No one can hurt you unless YOU let them. When it's over start focusing on other aspects of your life. Your schooling, your career, your family, don't dwell on the "wish it woulds".
2006-11-16 00:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you sound exactly like me...I ended it 5 weeks ago after 4 years and have started the long and very painful and difficult road to recovery. I am codependent...guessing you are too...look it up.
2006-11-15 23:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY WAY IS BY DOING IT. BREAK UP WITH HIM. HE DOESNT LOVE YOU OR HE WOULDNT BE HURTING YOU. PLUS IF HES HURTING YOU SO MUCH THEN RIP HIS HEART OUT WITH A RUSTED KNIFE AND THE STOMP ON IT AFTER IT HITS THE FLOOR. DONT BE AFRAID TO HURT HIM
2006-11-15 23:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by alkalinetrio1103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you shpuld talk to him and if that dosent help no matter the pain youmight want to break up and keep it that way unless he is willing to change for you
2006-11-15 23:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by yeseniaocenasek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a therapist.
2006-11-15 23:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look inside for the will power to move on......ok
2006-11-15 23:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid of being alone
2006-11-15 23:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋