The situation is:
I have been staying the night pretty consistently for about two months now but I do rent a house of which my roommate has been staying by himself. Yes, I do have a male roommate but he is a hairy software engineer who walks around with his shirt off and grosses me out. (won't even sit on his couch! ). Anyhow, my boyfriend needs a roommate because he needs help with his mortgage. I am moving into a different place on Dec. 1st and will have two male roommates - one of which is gay and never home and the other has been with his girl for 4 years and works, goes to the gym and goes to his girls condo a lot of the time. My boyfriend's friend knows two girls that are losing their place and he gave my boyfriend their number to call. My boyfriend just turned 29 and I am 24 (as are the two girls he wants to move in). Pretty much it's that I'm moving out so that two young attractive girls can move in with him. He knows it bothers me but thinks I'm irrational about it.
2006-11-15 15:35:51 · 15 answers · asked by tracimelbfl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are being irrational too. As soon as they move in, let them know thats your man but not disrespectfully so they won't try to do anything out of spite and even that would be alot
2006-11-15 15:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO to that Three's Company setup. You are NOT being irrational ! Worst case scenario : One attractive roommate comes out of the shower wrapped in a towel in front of your boyfriend,the towel accidentially falls off and they end up in bed. The temptation is too high. And every woman knows a man just can't resist temptation.
2006-11-15 15:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your moving out and moving in with two guys ,have you heard the saying whats good for goose? do you trust him? hes not 19 hes 29 your still young he might be trying to get you to stay. Or he really needs help with his mortgage dont think hes going to take a chance on messen around ,to much drama...
2006-11-15 15:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by chipsrdown38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the schedules of these girls moving in? How do you know they already don't have boyfriends? Or aren't gay?
I smell a double standard here. It's okay for you to move in with two men, but not okay for him to move in with two women?
And you're not moving out so two women can move it, you never lived there in the first place!
2006-11-15 15:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you ARE being irrational. It's ok for YOU to live with guys but he can't live with other girls? It doesn't matter what the sexual oritientations of any of your room mates are or their ages or their looks. If you don't want HIM living with girls then YOU need to find room mates who are females.
2006-11-15 16:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will desire to be comfortable with it. you will desire to learn how to have confidence your boyfriend, in any different case it's going to never artwork out for the long term anyhow. If he's going to cheat on you, he will do it no rely if or no longer he resides with 2 females. supply him the excellent factor appropriate to the doubt and learn how to have confidence.
2016-10-15 14:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by ellefson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow all i can say is a relatonship is based on love trust and honsty and if u cant trust him then you shouldnt be in a relationship with him and if u really love him and trust him u shouldnt be askin this question! just depends on how well u know him and if u think he would do anything 2 hurt u hope this helps
2006-11-15 15:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by cuddle_me_172002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you are not irrational you just don't think too much about this relationship which i hope will be okay but i have my doubts, a very big doubts!
2006-11-15 15:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's only a boyfriend. How much of a vote do you get in his life?
2006-11-15 15:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't what is good for the goose good for the gander? Or vice versa rather.
2006-11-15 15:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋