i just got out of a sexually deprived marriage, i really like this guy we are going out on our first date saturday, i really want to have sex... but like i said i really like him....if we by chance did end up having sex would it ruin everything....if we had a chance at anything?
2006-11-15 15:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"If we did by chance end up having sex" ?
The women knows if she is going to have sex with a guy 5 seconds into meeting him.
You know damn well you are going to have sex with him.
You never know if it will ruin it or not. Your going to take the chance either way.
2006-11-15 15:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by ABYSS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over with this feeling that sex would ruin everything. It would have ruined the world by now. Go express your feelings
2006-11-15 15:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually flirt with him,if he flirts back you're in there. No, it won't ruin it he's probably thinking the same thing it would be a big release of stress about the issue for both of you.
2006-11-15 15:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your first date with him and you are already thinking of jumping his bones? slow down. not on the first date. don't be silly.. you don't want to think your easy, do you? don't drop your pants. there is plenty of time for nukkie. Meanwhile, get a toy,, a vibrator.. something firm.. don't rush into sex, just because you are deprived. Otherwise,, who knows what he will think.
2006-11-15 15:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest waiting to have sex with him.. get to know eachother better instead of just jumping into bed together. sex isnt everything and if you build your relationship on sex in the beginning that pretty much what most of the relationship will be built on sex.... but it is up to you i just give advice you dont have to take it :-)
2006-11-15 15:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by loveinit2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know with how it goes on your date. If you're both ready it will happen naturally. Don't worry so much about, let things progress naturally and you will make the right decision.
2006-11-15 15:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to this song "all i wanna do is make love to u" by hearts.
get it all into ur head and meet this guy. and have fun. no, it wouldnt ruin anything at all.
2006-11-15 15:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EASY. IF U REALLY LIKE SOMEONE THEN IT CAN WAIT BUT IF UR GOING JUST FOR THAT REASON THEN GO FOR IT. IT IS NEVER TOO LATE FOR ANYTHING . ENJOY
2006-11-15 15:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should control your emotions, its not bad still why to take chance.
2006-11-15 15:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it do it!!! but of all seriousness if ya really like him take your time he'll come around soon enough
2006-11-15 15:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by hmongheroz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋