okay like 1 week ago i got out of a marriage that was going nowhere like i was completely over him b4 it ended, meanwhile there was this guy at work that b4 me and my husband split we would always flirt and talk all the time now that me and my husband are split, me and this guy at work are dating ...its really bad though since last monday we have talked on the phone every night, at least 2 times, we talk at work and flirt and even the other night we stayed on the phone for 3 hours.. i really like him..alot, he has a daughter who i haven't met yet but hey we just started talking like the week b4 last, um do you think that he is just out for the one thing ...i'm scared i may be falling to fast for him....help? i can picture myself being with him for awhile
2006-11-15 15:25:20 · 13 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like this guy you are dating is genuine and wants a relationship with you. This is based on the fact that he takes time to talk with you on the phone for so long and flirting etc. I don't believe he is just after sex as he is doing all this nice stuff with you and he is mature enough given he has a child. I believe that you are feeling this (uncertain or insecure) because you have come out a relationship and you are scared of the unknown. Just be patient, don't rush and have fun!!
2006-11-15 15:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a divorce. As long as you are married, it is wrong. That's my personal opinion and I know it's not a popular one.
However, have you asked yourself if this is the reason your marriage has ended? You didn't give much details about why your marriage was going no where. Did you attempt to make it go "somewhere"? Also, this may just be a rebound thing. And wel all know this kind of relationship rarely lasts.
2006-11-15 23:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are on the rebound girl.
Please don't jump into another relationship.
However, don't let a good thing go away.
So take it slow. Date other people. Enjoy getting to know yourself and live alone for a change. Have fun without thinking about a second marriage with a child involved. Get to know the guy before you commit to love.
2006-11-15 23:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give yourself sometime, its just 1 week out if marriage, dont you think it is kind of a rush to jump to another relationship?!!! You sure you didnt get out of the marriage due to this new guy since you've been dating even before splitting up with hubby?? You need to sit and evaluate YOU!
2006-11-15 23:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The length of time that two people have know each other is not a good indication of whether it is time or not....but really quick reactions toward jumping into a new relationship may be more driven by desperation than desire.
2006-11-15 23:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorry you broke up. but... i would not do anything until [after] the divorce or your husband could hang you.with alot of crimes.
anyway just follow your heart . but be causious at all times.
[1] you havent met his daughter yet? thats one indication.
[2].look how quick you met him.
[3] have you gone out yet?
think of these things first then make a decision.
2006-11-15 23:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by oceandollhouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been a whole week? WHY ARE YOU TAKING SO LONG TO FIGURE THIS OUT?
Ask him to share his deepest fantasy. It will be good conversation and put you both in the right mood.
Waiting a full week is ridiculous.
2006-11-15 23:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definately falling to fast and I sure wish divorce wasn't so easy now a days. Whatever happened to sacred vows?
2006-11-15 23:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too serious too soon and be right back wher you were before you divorce or split.
take time to know him is always a good peice of advice.
2006-11-15 23:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go with whatever feels natural to you.
2006-11-15 23:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋