i call him i email him i im him but he won't tell to me
2006-11-15 15:24:31 · 16 answers · asked by Mallory L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Busy yourself with bettering (is that a word?) yourself and finding some happiness. After all you are the one responsible for your own happiness. He will want to know whats going on. At that time tell him that there should be ground rules to your relationship. See if its worth saving. If not, move on. Good luck
2006-11-15 15:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be best if you gave him a little space. If he is mad then all the attempted contacts is just fueling the fire. Give him time (but not a long time) to cool down and then see if you can talk it out. If not, then don't waste your time with someone who is not mature enough to let you in on what is going on.
Every relationship hits rocky spells once in a while, but it's the ability to work thru these times that make the realtionship worthwhile. You can't make him do what you want if he isn't in it whole heartedly.
If he doesn't come around then he isn't the guy for you. There is someone for you just wait and see.
Pressuring him to talk to you before he is ready is not the way to go.
I know it is tough but things will work out for the best just hang in there. Good luck.
2006-11-15 23:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by cgslady96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you make him mad?? if not maybe he's having some problems with his family that he may not want to discuss with you right now, however i wouldn't call him anymore i would wait to see if he'd call me...if he keeps up this behaviour as the days go by then maybe he's ready to walk out of this relationship and is too coward to tell you...however if that's the case then you know you must move on b/c you can't make someone be with you... so respect yourself and move on it may not be the easiest thing to do... but you will eventually thank yourself for it, well i hope everything work out for you good luck!!!
2006-11-15 23:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...how long yall been together if its more than a year then something is probably terribly wrong like something probably happened to him..but if yall been together for only a couple of months and u barely kno him then he's probably just avoiding u. But i can be completely wrong. Maybe he found out that u did something wrong and thats his way of dealing with it.
2006-11-15 23:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and some time.....!
He is in his cave right now...! It will not help if you keep chasing him around- TRUST ME (I am assuming you both had a fight)!!!
ever read men are from mars and women are from venus?!!!
If he's avoiding you for no good reason then he doesn't deserve you, dedicate and invest your time in someone who would never want to be away from you, let alone deliberatley ignore you!!!
2006-11-15 23:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to move on. If he won't speak to you (which is your first clue that he needs to mature some before having a relastionship), then you can't force him to. Good Luck to you
2006-11-15 23:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either needs time, he is going to dump you. Either way, he is being rude and why would you want to get stuck with someone like that?
2006-11-15 23:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit with him and short out the matter.
2006-11-15 23:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday, he's going to talk to you. Don't worry, just be patient.
2006-11-15 23:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by lavieenmauve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case, then I think it's over.
2006-11-15 23:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by rrroboticcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋