i have a boyfriend then we had this what we call "LQ". he neither talk to me nor glance at me. i hate this feeling. i tried to talk to to him but he just ignore me!!! I tired of following him. i think i lost my patience. and one time this bestfriend of mine told me this..."YOUR BOYFRIEMD STOLE MONEY" o gosh!!! should i believe my bestfriend? but i cannot talk to my boyfriend because he's mad at me. what if i asked him about it then our situation will become worst... what if it is true that he stole money...as in big amount of money!!! should i love him still though i know that our relationship is in danger zone already? what should i do?
2006-11-15 15:17:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could still have feelings of love for him, although you may really have to wonder if you could trust him and if your relationship is going to last if he is proven to be dishonest.
2006-11-15 15:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know first of all what Love is.
If it is not from both sides then Love is not.
If he stole lots of money then u need to think
about ur life with him in the future. As for if u
should love him still even if he stole u are the
only one that can answer that no-one else. But
why would you love some one who stole big
without knowing if he would ever do it again.
Forgive is one thing and love is another.
I would think this one out if I were you.
2006-11-15 23:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big diference with being in love and loving someone. Love is blind and I'm guessing you only loving him physically, and if he is that selfish that he won't even have the dencency to tell you wtf is going on with him and he's acting so childish with the not talking to you and all, I say step. I think your holding on to him for all the wrong reasons. As for the situation with the money stealing I don't have enough details to determin whether he's doe it or not
2006-11-15 23:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of that s*** now... my husband is awesome we have so much fun but he has a disease, it's called being a compulsive LIAR, he pawns EVERYTHING he can get his hands on that is worth something with noregards for the feelings of others, in the past two months hes pawned my playstation 2, 15 DVD's and ops2 games, a ring my grandmother gave me for graduation, and my engagement ring, ADN my fossil watch i got last christmas, i dont know why he pawns these things except he TELLS me it is so i will give him attention, but all the attention he gets when he does this is me screaming and elling at him... i think you should get out of it see all that stuff was MY things that I brought into the marriage! so GET OUT OF IT befor it happens to you too
2006-11-15 23:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel how you feel. You might still love him, but start to think about why. Is he as great as you thought he was? Is he really worth you? You do "LQ" back better. You don't talk to HIM . . . you don't glance at HIM . . you ignore HIM!!!!!
2006-11-15 23:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you believe in other,how about go to see and discuss with your boyfriend. Just forget about he's mad at you and try to solve the problem.Better do something or regret it later.
2006-11-15 23:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by wanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would write him a note tellin him how u feel and just poor your heart out and if that doesnt work then hes not worth your time but 99% of the time this works good luck!
2006-11-15 23:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by cuddle_me_172002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT THE REALTIONSHIP
AND FIND OUT WHAT GOING ON WITH HIM. WHAT EVER
IS THE PROBLEM. NOT TALKING IS NOT THE ANSWER
AS FOR THE MONEY SITUATION. THAT REALLY IS NOT
YOUR CALL. HE HAS TO DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT
SOME SAY THAT HE STOLE FROM THEM. THAT HAS
NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT REALLY GOING WITH
YOU.
2006-11-15 23:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd try to talk to him, try to work things out ask whats on his mind and try not to have to break up with him. But if he is still actin stubborn then Sadly just break up with him.
2006-11-15 23:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~Can't Live Without You~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can your friend prove he stole their money? and if your bf is mad at you about it,, that means he probalby did. just be careful with your money.but who knows, you money could come up missing too.
2006-11-15 23:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋