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kataras brother here uh I have a problem I me and this girl have ben chatting overthe net for like two months seen each other twice and I told her i loved her once she diddn't love me and we agreed to never bring it up again but in some of the questions she asked tonight had asked if I had feelings for her alot and I diddn't lie i said yes and we talked about that already but I told her I loved her about a month ago and I was hoping she forgot do you think it was wrong that i brought it up again uh I sent a letter off that was stupid like I hope it doesn't leave you in shock I never say things like that I was tired and I said that

2006-11-15 14:13:59 · 15 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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shes wants to no if u care for her, or if u rele didn't men any of it.
just b/c she doesn't love u doesn't mean she doesn't like u.
b honest, its better than lying and finding out l8r that if u had told the turth- u would have had everything u ever wanted

good luck, i no its hard to love someone who doesn't love u bak

2006-11-15 14:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0 0

It isn't wrong to tell people your feelings. But it's also too soon to be saying you love someone. Especially after two months?! How old are you? It's nice that you found this girl over the internet. But, you just don't know her very well. Keep talking to her and get to know her. OK? If she brings it up again, tell her you have feelings for her, like you care about her, but you think it's too soon to "love her." Let her know that you were really tired when you sent her your letter and you don't want to hurt her feelings. OK? I hope this helped. Good luck.

2006-11-15 22:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0 0

A girl doesn't forget those words.I think you just scared her when you said it try slowing down some.Talking to a someone online is one thing you start all over when you meet ease into it again become friends keep going out often doing fun things don't expect kisses and hugs and love just accept her being there spending time kisses and hugs will come when she feels comfortable you'll know when the right moment arises.If you really love this girl then slow down and wait she'll come to you slowly just spend time with her.Good Luck :)

2006-11-15 22:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0 0

letting other people push your buttons is always close to being dangerous, know that you can push the wrong buttons and so can anyone else, head games are out there beware of the facts that no two people can get it right all the time there. one can be upstairs and the other can be down stairs and totally feel in agreement but concepts are illusionally rolling up hill on some one,there is selective rejections, differed gratifications, direct oversights, bait & switch, on and on the more the behavioral sciences create acute angles the more traps there are out there to be suckered in to and not see that you do see

2006-11-15 22:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0 0

I'm sorry but in my opinion I think 2 months of knowing someone is WAY too early to say "I love you" specially with an on-line relationship. She was probably scared or shocked when you told her this. Maybe you can change it into something like...You're not IN LOVE with her but you love her and her personality? Good luck with this girl.

2006-11-15 22:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Keona 2 · 0 0

well first you should remember that i'll take longer to get to know someone over the net just b/c they can be anyone they want to be second if you and her are really in love then everything will happen the way they are supposed to happen if she gets mad at you for tellin gher again maybe she just needs space or a little time to thunk and then let you know where you 2 stand

2006-11-15 22:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by thumbcat123 1 · 0 0

Yes Mam

2006-11-15 22:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0 0

Katara needs to let things ride and deal with the outcome. It's not like it's gonna hurt. Just go for it and see what happens.

2006-11-15 22:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

some people get really freaked out with the words "i love you" not quite sure what it is.. everyone perhaps has different reasons based on bad experiences with love.

sounds like this person has some serious emotional issues, and you may never get the love in return that you are looking for

2006-11-15 22:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0 0

first of all, you should never recant feelings that you have. If it's the way you feel it's the way you feel. You can say that you won't tell her, but don't say it isn't true because then she can't trust what you say. Tell her it's okay that she doesn't feel the same way. You don't care for her so that she will care back, you honestly just care. (use care instead of love)

2006-11-15 22:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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