2006-11-15 13:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by just_like_me_for_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you mean you met him online? Or you were with him before and now apart?
I'm apart from my boyfriend because I work as a touring crew for musicals, and they are usually an 18 month contract. But we have now been together for 4 years. He stays with me every couple of months just for the weekend. There's obviously needs to be a lot of trust between you to make it work. I try to send him a message everyday, but occasionally thats not possible and he understands. But it wasn't always like that cos he has a life and friends that he wants to go out with, and as do i.
Stick with him, and see how it turns out. If it doesn't work and either of your heart's wander, then obviously you're not right for each other and there's no use crying over it if its not meant to be. As strange as this sounds, be prepared for it not to work but still try to make it work at the same time. I prepared myself when he went to university, and I absolutley dreaded freshers' week when I'd sit online waiting for him to come on. I got upset a few times when he didn't come on, or at least let me know where he was. That did lead to a few arguments.
In the end, I just came to think if he does cheat, then he's a total jerk! And I will ditch him! No use being with someone like that, its not worth the tears!
But it did work out considering I'm still with him. Although there are still other competitions about trying to displace me. My boyfriend and I have an understanding and I absolutley trust him, and he tells me which one of my so called friends have been trying to pull him again and sending him vulgar messages. Yes, she's not my friend no more, since I got her back by forwarding the messages to her boyfriend. (i know i'm evil, but its all justified!)
2006-11-16 14:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're saying long distance, what do you propose by potential of that? Do you reside 4 hours aside, an afternoon's force, around the rustic or in a distinctive u . s . altogether? the biggest to any long distance relationship being valuable is the committment the two human beings would desire to it. it is finished, yet you are able to desire to make the lots of the time which you have collectively. carry out a little skype training so as which you have head to head communique. Get a competent telephone card. on each occasion conceivable, MAKE the time to work out one yet another (weekends, trip journeys, etc.). I say make the time through fact it can be a sacrifice, the two financially and on your individual very own time. on the tip of the day, long distance relationships at the instant are not for each individual. For some human beings, they forget somewhat speedy with regards to the guy they're relationship as quickly as they're out of sight. For others, they'd desire to be attentive to that they'd see their boyfriend/lady buddy prevalent. think of approximately the place you stand in all of this. Are you committed adequate to place the attempt into this style of relationship, or is it time to bypass on? better of success.
2016-12-10 09:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by hergenroeder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why put yourself through that? Unless he can afford to come and be with you or you going there.Break the relationship you can still chat with him but don't hold your life for him find someone closer maybe you'll fall in-love for alittle while and it wont last relationship and maybe afterwards if the time is right and the moment arises that you both can change your situation then have a relationship with online man and be together instead of distant.Good Luck :)
2006-11-15 14:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
online is a great place to meet people, but you won't truly know the person until you have had some time together in person.
online relationships can work, but it is tough.. especially if it is a long distance relationship that limits the amount of time you can spend with the person.
2006-11-15 14:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you both have to make sacarfices to each other because you both are far away. i am in a long distance relationship my gf stays in philipines. the best way is to get yahoo messanger and set up times where you met. its great to have a cam and also a microphone so you both can talk without typing doing this will make you get what the other person is like if your relationship grows then you go meet that person
2006-11-15 14:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you cope? Are you ever planning on meeting each other? What are you trying to cope with?
2006-11-15 13:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will cope with it as long as u can when u get a enough u will let it go so have fun while it last/
2006-11-15 14:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by pecan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax.
call hI'm, write to him. there are many things you can do to stay in touch.
but if your not interested in him let him down easy.
long distance relationships are very hard im sure. you'll be fine if you just keep in touch
2006-11-15 14:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you're away from each other for. Has it always been this way??
2006-11-15 14:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by honeypot56000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they never work out trust me, i was with a guy afor awhile online and he was cheating on me and he was just a sicko, they are never who you really think they are.
2006-11-15 13:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by ros_0123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋