One of my friends dad is in therapy if he docent go to his therapy he will end up n a weal chair. He sold there house to use the money left to pay for his therapy, and she found out the day of the closing. The issue is that they can stay in the house and pay a low rent to help him pay his therapy. My friend has told her dad that she hates him that she would of prefer him to end up in a weal chair or dead but he should not have sold the house, and not live under the charity of others. Im really confuse what should I do should I just hear to her talking all this craziness or say something or just stop being her friend?
2006-11-15 13:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hes in physical therapy, and she sas shi is not going to work becuase shis still in collge and her dad has to suport her no mater what.i have talk to her but she ignores me
2006-11-15 14:06:09 · update #1
Being or her friend or not is all up to you.
If you want to still be her friend, try to convince her that her Dad needed the money and she should NOT wish he was dead or in a wheel chair. Tell her to try and work w/ her Dad until she can move out. Encourage her and help her get away all of her stress.
If she keeps talking and keeps staying mad, try to get her to see a counselor.
Or don't be her friend anymore if you don't want anything to do with her.
It's YOUR choice!!
Good luck.
2006-11-15 13:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about ur freind's dad and her problems. She is understand enormous stress and may say or react in a certain way that is unbecoming. She still needs you as a freind and would probably feel down if u desert her now (eventhough she may not show it). She needs you to be there for her...but it doesnt mean you have to agree with whatever she says. I find it quite cruel to rather have her dad in wheelchair than to sell the house. Try talking some sense in her but if she doesnt wanna listen...just spend some time with her doing other stuffs...help her pre-occupy her time. Hope she will cheer up...and that things will turn out better soon.
2006-11-15 22:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by newfangled_04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me...........that confuses me.......!!! lol cant understand how he will be in a wheel chair from not going to his therapist ???? are you talking physical or mental?? any way be her friend and listen encourage her to understand her dads wishes maybe this is the only way he knows how to take of care of himself houses come a dime a dozen you can get another house but you cant get your dad back if he dies .......which i had mine needless to say encourage her and be there for her may the lord lead you in what to say to her
2006-11-15 22:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by deborah n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- why are you even considering dropping her? that's not very friend-like
2. just listen. her family is really going thru a tough situation. she is probably very angry and confused about this mess.
3. wait in time she probably will change her outlook.
2006-11-15 21:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by kdf_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she is confused and thinking only of herself, family always comes before anything in life tell her to grow up and have a heart for others expecially her fam
2006-11-15 21:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by missmiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound to nice to me no matter what you should never wish your dad dead.this girl doesnt sound like a good person and you should surround your self with those kinds of people.
2006-11-15 22:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend only sees his/her own only without seeing his/her father suffer.
your friend NOT worth as a friend, i'll bet he/she will do the same to you if you in bad condition.
2006-11-15 22:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋