So theres this girl i went on a date with and she said she likes me but we dont really know ea. other.....So then a couple days ago she tells me she likes another dude and shes mad at her friend for stabbing her in the back for him. So im like ok wtf? i thought we were talking...but to make a long story short i got pissed and started ignoring her, quit calling/texts for like two days and she keeps trying to talk to me on aim....i dont know why she keeps doing it but i dont wanna be played as the "second man in line" So what should i do now?
2006-11-15 13:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she liked another guy also and her friend betrayed her. When you are dating and just starting dating, you have to talk to each other about what you feel about dating.
If you only want to date only one person at a time, you have to let her know that. There are many people who are dating and just dating with nothing serious in it, especially when you are just getting to know each other. You should let her talk.
Communication is the number one thing in any relationship. At least she is being honest that she likes someone else. If you don't want to talk to her because she likes someone else, tell her that. Don't ignore her. Tell her how you honestly feel. I am like you. I don't go for someone who likes someone else, but you have to tell her. You might be good friends even if you don't make good boyfriend - girlfriend relationship.
2006-11-15 13:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ignore her, thats the worst. She may have been playing a cat and mouse chase game for attention. Girls have a way of fishing for attention that way. Just be straight with her..tell her "i was interested in you and thought things were well, but then you threw a curve ball and said you were interested in someone else, and i dont appreciate being lead on the way you did."
Take it from there..tell her whats up. And if she gives you the run around, maybe its best to break it off.
2006-11-15 13:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by fotojunkie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you dont want to be her second in line man.. she'll probably say 'its not like that, ' or 'its different' dont believe her! Get rid of her.. do you really want to stay with a person if you keep hearing stories about the other person they like??? no! Kick her to the curb!
2006-11-15 13:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by A.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel about that. Alot of people date more than one person. You'd be suprised how many girls out there have a backup or 3. You should do the same. Date around. Have a few choices. Don't ignore her though.
2006-11-15 13:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by TodboT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I can tell, that you are an adolecent, who doesn't really NEED a g/f, is what you call it these days I hear? Well, anyways. I think she really does like you, but she doesn't think YOU like her back. So she is trying to make you jelous of her and this boy. I suggest trying to show her that you care about her. If this doesn't help, then you did not write this question properly.
2006-11-15 13:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Addicted To Abercrombie & Fitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thnk she didnt had another crush actually she was jst playing games to make u feel jealous and this is what gals want their guys to do( imean to be jealous abt her) i thnk she really likes or the other way can be that she liked sum1 else and wen she saw him going she is now approaching you,but y to thnk so much,if u like her then jst hav a relationship and u can hav her chng her ways if u dont like sumthng wen u get involved,whats the harm in being frends
2006-11-15 13:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't wanna be played! Say "if this is for real it's ok but don't go lying to me!" or something like that.
Tell it like it is!
But do this if you really like her if not she's not worth it...
2006-11-15 13:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by groovydana92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffinetaley forget her don't see her don't talk to her do not even flirt with her she is just one of those players who only love you when they are playing.
2006-11-15 13:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these things do not matter, u watch too many love story movies, so does everyone, why do u people buy into this consumerism ideal of life? it's straight up bullshit.
2006-11-15 13:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by uglyblueflamingo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever crossed your mind that maybe just because she likes someone else she still wants to be friends with you?
it's called being mature.
2006-11-15 13:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋