what are you gonna do if the person you love and live with for the last 3 years became cold, distanced, distracted, unaffectionate n impatient towards you? Although its life as usual, being work, home, outings as normal.
2006-11-15 13:48:26 · 9 answers · asked by yoyo l 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are not married, just 2 persons living live man & wife. while one works as usual, the other handle all housework. still went out together especially for drinks wf all their friends. but whenever there's a disagreement, the man would threaten to leave the house, treat the woman coolly afterwards and pretend nothing happens. the man won't talk in depth cos he finds the woman stupid. but the woman finds the man too impatient to really sit n talk things through. he made her feel insecure with his treats to leave anytime. how?
2006-11-15 14:02:03 · update #1
Tell them you have noticed a change and try to get them to discuss your relationship. If they seem negative and don't want to talk, then come right out and ask if the other person thinks your relationship has a future.
People grow apart and sometimes it's too far apart for them to want to try to get back. If thats the case it's best to get it out in the open and move on. Life's too short to be in a relationship that isn't working.
2006-11-15 14:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit down and talk to this person, this person may be under a lot of stress for any number of reasons. Let them know how concerned you are about them and ask what you can do to help. If that does not work maybe check with other family members about any changes or odd behavior they may have noticed. Follow your gut.
2006-11-15 21:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person has probably met someonel else. I am assuming that is the only reason why there is this growing distance between you. Communication is the key. If that does not work, respect it and give the person personal space. And do not take it personal until you know it is because of you. Good luck!
2006-11-15 21:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mimiche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do is talk about it, Show you are concerned as you care about the relationship you have. Its okay to be open and honest..pretenting you dont see it, may lead to a breakup. TALKING is the key to everything, and it shows you are willing to step up in the relationship when you see something is wrong.
2006-11-15 21:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by fotojunkie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk. don't dump first ask questions later. something is up. as any psch dude will tell you. changes in behaviour are signs that something has changed in a person's life. find out what it is. hopefuly it's a what not a who.
2006-11-15 21:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by kdf_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that person and move to another who u can have a close connection with.
2006-11-15 21:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new person to be close to
2006-11-15 21:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by gettin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on or try and find the spark between you to again if possible. usually not possible so probably move on.
2006-11-15 21:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK!!
2006-11-15 21:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by honeypot56000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋