I had broken up with him a few months ago. We're back together now but I just found out that he fooled around a week after I broke up with him. I'm not sure what to think...I know the grl and when I asked him earlier, he straight up denied it...now the truth is out. I really like him, but I'm lost in my own thoughts...what does everyone think?
2006-11-15 13:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO AWAY -- Go FAR Away from this LOSER -- and do NOT look back.
2006-11-15 13:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it took him that long after you broke up with him to mess around with someone that you knew, then that means he really didn't care about you in the first place. I know how you feel, and to me you should leave him. He is just a player, that is probably just using you to say that he has a girl, but in the mean time while dating you he might have another female as well. I would take the risk of dating him and if he's messing around with another female and you also, and end up getting something from him. I think you should leave him because NO female deserves a scum bag like that. and if he lied about something that he did while y'all WERE broken up, then just think about what he could be lying about now..
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-16 17:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Munkee-Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The concern here itsn't that he was making out with someone else -- you had broken up with him, so he was a free man. If you don't like that, tough. The concern is that he lied to you about it. So now that you know that he'll lie about such matters, are you going to give him the opportunity to lie to you again? You're in a better position to judge whether or not he's worth it than I am, but I don't have to live with the consequences of your choice. You do, so choose wisely.
2006-11-15 21:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by messed around you mean by...it...then I'd be really grossed out...(Sorry but I'm just saying...)
I mean, to even think that something like happened, I couldn't even face him.
I know that he's not the last guy on earth, so why stress about it?
If he really wanted to be with you he wouldn't go doing that with anyone else but you.
If I found out that my bf did that...omg, first I'd go off...but I would never look at him the same or talk about it...break up right then and there...
I hope everything works out for you mija...
Good luck!
2006-11-15 21:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he denied it is not a good sign. but other than that, there's really nothing wrong.. you had broken up, so he was free to do as he pleased.. but it does seem strange that he was over you so quickly and ready for someone else right away.. i'd strongly question to what extent he really cares for you..
2006-11-15 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him what he did wasn't any of your concern. You asked a question and he didn't know how to handle it without causing more problems with you. Dishonesty is never a good thing but I can understand his problem assuming he really wants to be with you.
2006-11-15 21:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break up with. him for good. Obviously it didn't take to long for him to get over it last time. You'll feel much better in the long run
2006-11-15 21:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by jrsygrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't with him then. Plus, YOU left HIM, not the other way around, so you have no reason to complain.
2006-11-15 21:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player. if he See's someone better he'll go for no matter the results.
2006-11-15 21:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks he should have stayed your "ex."
2006-11-15 21:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COULD BE HE WAS JUST TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS. COULD BE SHE WAS HIS REBOUND. WHO KNOWS. BUT.....
IF IT ONLY TOOK HIM THAT LONG TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO SCREW THEN, HOW LONG DO YOU THINK IT WOULD TAKE HIM THIS TIME TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE? TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-15 21:49:21 · answer #11 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋