mom problem?

Question

my mom keeps saying i shouldn't have a boyfriend yeah right
anyway the point is every time i talk in the phone wit a guy friend she sais hes my bf
what shuold i do

Answer 1

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

Answer 2

Depending on how old you are your mom is right, you shouldn't have a boyfriend. If you silly a-- young girls would listen sometimes instead of trying to be grown you may stop ending up pregnant or stay virgins until you get married. Your mom has a right to try and protect you because boys only have one thing they want from you, booty! And that doesn't usually stop until they are damn near 30! What your mom should do is keep your grown *** off that phone talking to any boy at all and beat your *** if she catches you. Go to school little girl and get an education and stop trying to have a boyfriend. They can't give you much but problems, a baby, a disease or som di-k. None of which are too great.

Answer 3

Your mom is scared her little girl is growing up. You should sit down with her and have a talk about how you have crushes on boys but not every boy you talk to is your boyfriend and when you have a boyfriend she will be the first one to meet him and if she is worried about grown up stuff tell her you'll be smart about things and if she has any questions about your relationship she can always ask. Ask her that when you do have a boyfriend what are some of the rules she would like to set.Tell her when you have your first kiss be open with her about your feelings about your boyfriend if she feels informed then she can be there for you.If you hide things from her she will just be suspicious about what is going on between you and your boyfriend which will make her stress out and angry which will stress you out and anger you also cause she'll still be scared and worried about if their is any sex going on with your boyfriend.Just try to be open towards your mom and remember you'll always in her eyes be her little girl and she needs to adjust to you being a Young women she just doesn't wanna see you grown up to fast..Good Luck :)

Answer 4

First of all, How old are you? That may have allot to do with it. You need to have a talk with your mom and see if you two can come up with some kind of compromise. show her she can trust you by being responsible and helping around the house without fighting with her. You will find the more you can get along with your mom the more freedom she's likely to allow you to have.

Answer 5

Probably, when she was your age, she had a "bad reputation" for messing around with a lot of boys, so she doesn't want you to have that kind of reputation (in other words, in her mind, she thinks she's trying to "protect" you)

Also, back in those days, teenage boys and girls didn't have friendships - boys only had male friends, girls only had girlfriends and if a boy and a girl were talking, it was because they were boyfriend and girlfriend

Things were different back then, and she doesn't understand that things are different now then they were when she was a girl

Just try and explain to her that these boys are just friends, and you're not dating them (also, try and talk to your male friends on your cell phone in your room, or on IM on your computer, so she doesn't know that you're talking to male friends)

Answer 6

yepp thats what my dad does and he evens listens to my conversations on the other lines. i spoke with my dad about i dont have a boyfriends and blahh blahh i was just asking for homework and stuff even though what i said wasnt true. They're like yeahh right. And they get all suspicous thats what parents do try talking to her maybe she'll understand.

Answer 7

with this kind of mentality, sorry but your mom may be right? if you're over 18 you can do what you want (kind of ) but until then, you sound too immature for a boyfriend or relationship. Don't report, just telling it like it is.

Answer 8

one question to you what would happen if you had a mother who didn't give a d***** what you did whether or not you had clothes or food or a place to stay didn't care if you came home she is only caring about you and don't want you to make any mistakes so just be truthful with her and she will back off but if she catches you in a lie then you are on your own good luck

Answer 9

Just let her if you try and correct her it will make her just as mad trust me i have gone down the wrong road with that whole deal just try and explain to her that they are just friends maybe take some pictures and show her or tell her some of the mean things or funny things they do try and make her nderstand

Answer 10

I think you should tell your mom that she shouldn't listen in on you conversations and you'll tell (maybe) when you have a bf

Answer 11

Tell your mom that you could have a boyfriend any time. If u really like him than u should date him!