does he like me? (when westerners say' let's go downtown ', they mean it or just say it?)?

Question

im an asian girl..and i just arrived at canada three month ago..there are lots of socializing rules that make me confused..i can't read the underlying meaning of their answers..for example:

i have a feeling for a guy just living in the same floor with me..he asked me out about three times..but at that time, im too busy to go..

then when im available, i ask him out, he said he was not able to because of the midterms and assignments( i have asked him out two times)..and he said he will check his schedule and write it on his calender in case that he will forget it!(god..if he has A LITTLE BIT feeling for me..he wont forget!!)

just now i got up and met him in the hallway, he pated my face with both hands and smiled (coz i looked still sleepy)..we talked..is this a common in the west between friends??

i know im babbling too much myself..,does he like me?? coz i think if a man likes a girl, no matter how busy he is, he still has time to go out with that girl, right?

no..i didnt turn him down..when he said let's go downtown together, i said:ok..probably in the reading break!(i have midterms then)

and before the reading break, he said 'let's go downtown in reading break, i said: sure!!!

but he didnt make any REAL move, since he said it, he just says it!!

plz~~~~~help me...i really dont know how to figure it out

plz~~~~~help me...i really dont know how to figure it out

Answer 1

Sometimes yeah but your sounding kind of hypocritical darling. You didn't have time for him but obviously still feel something there perhaps he has feelings too. A man will always be there for his girl if he feels his girl is always there for him.

Answer 2

u expect him to totally fall for you?!!! after you turned him down a lot of times!! get over your self!! if you "didn't" have time for him what makes you think that he will have time for you?!!!!