I'm really getting sick of going back and fowarth with my ex. I really want to be with him, but it feels like he never makes time for me and his most common excuss is hes to busy. So what is the easiest way to move on? Becuase i need to do it for good and not keep going back to him. (and its me that normaly trys to get back with him, not the other way around) so how do i stay away for good?
2006-11-15 13:36:17 · 6 answers · asked by sun drenched 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, it's easy to move on if your tired of being pushed away....One would call it WILL POWER. Go out with your single friends and shop around for something new and refreshing in the new man dept. I'm going out with a single girl friend of mine this weekend while she meets some guy from a dating service for the first time, and while I have her back I'll also be shopping for someone new to add to my collection of men.....just like shoes...we never have enough of them!!!!
2006-11-15 13:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to focus on YOU. Take a class, pick a hobby, just keep yourself busy making yourself a better person so that you will be prepared for the RIGHT guy who is bound to come into your life. One thing that really helps to get him out of your mind in the begginning is to delete his numbers from your phone, so that you're not tempted to call him. Stay away from love stories, love songs, etc... They make you think about the old times. Good luck!!
2006-11-15 13:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by C. J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to make a solid definate decision that this is what you want. Second, you need to find a hobby or something that will pre occupy yourself. Maybe music, crosswords,jigsaw puzzles, etc. When ever you think of him, go and do something listed above instead.
2006-11-15 13:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by SissyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constant reminder of things you DIDN'T Like about him? Throw away stuff that reminds you of him? Go and get a new bf?
It will take time, heck all things take time, but then keep yourself busy and take care of yourself.
2006-11-15 13:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by starz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and look for someone better! You dont need to put up with that ****!
2006-11-15 13:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend...if all you are listing are the bad things about him...that must be all that is on ur mind...if ur not happy with them...find someone that will make you happy
2006-11-15 13:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋