theres this really cute boy in my class and he wants to got wit me i want to go hiw him 2, but heres the problem, he and my bf are ex but he can't stand her he keeps tellig me he loves me and everyone says we should go tigether on the dl is that right?
2006-11-15 13:34:39 · 23 answers · asked by livelydezi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the bf means my best friend. and i was trying to hurry while typing
2006-11-15 13:43:29 · update #1
First thing you need to do is learn to spell. Spend more time learning in school, less time worrying about the boy. At the very least use the spell checker.
2006-11-15 13:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No it's not right if that is your best friends ex.
Friends' exes should automatically be off limits, shouldn't even be considered.
Now if you talked to her and asked her if it was ok ,and she said she would be totally cool with it, that's different(you know like he was just a fling and she didn't really care). However, if you are talking about someone she had feelings for and all of that, of course it's not ok.
I would gather that it's the latter seeing as how you talked about dating him on "the dl". That tells me you know she wouldn't be cool with it.
2006-11-15 21:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you all are in high school AND he isn't even your boyfriend he DOES NOT love you... he either is dumb and doesn't know what love is or he is a liar.
Aside from that, you never date your friends' ex's. That's just a no-no, no matter how old you are. Guys will come and go through out life... best friends will be around forever - unless you date their ex. It's just disrespectful to do that to your friend.
2006-11-15 21:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by asoobee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF IT HAS TO BE ON THE "DL" THEN NO. YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT BECAUSE IT WOULD BE DEGRADING TO YOU. IF HE LOVES YOU LIKE HE SAYS HE DOES, THEN HE WILL WANT TO SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOFTOP OF EVERY HOUSE. HE WILL WANT TO ANNOUNCE IT OVER THE INTERCOM BEFORE CLASS OR WHENEVER. AND THE TOPPER IS THAT HE WILL NOT GIVE A RAT'S **** WHO HAS ANYTHING TO SAY ABOUT IT. YOUR BEST FRIEND OR NOT, YOU SHOULD LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE AT LEAST CONSIDERING HIM AS YOUR POSSIBLE BOYFRIEND. NOT TO GET HER APPROVAL, BUT ONLY TO GIVE HER A HEADS UP. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK. HOPE I HELPED.
2006-11-15 21:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,
Thats a bad idea, if you rbestfriend dated him and things didnt work out, then obviously hes a creep, you should leave the issue alond and tell him it will NEVER happen. Do you want to loose your best friend over him? Not worth it.
-James
2006-11-15 21:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 talk 2 ur BF first... u need 2 let her know what s going on.... if she finds out from some1 Else that u go out wit this guy then everything is just going 2 get worst.... trust me... i have experience wit that ....
2006-11-15 21:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jen Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf dated him for a long time like in a serious relationship and you want to keep your bf, I suggest you stay away from him. If your bf didn't date him for long then I'd go for it
2006-11-15 21:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you go to school? You need to learn how to write a sentence properly and how to spell. Leave them boys alone girl.
2006-11-15 21:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off I think you should talk to your best friend. maybe the reason that they didn't last is because they were too different. you never know. and if your best friend is OK with it then I suggest you go out with him but take it slowly.
2006-11-15 21:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like it's the right thing to do mija? If you like the boy, then yeah go for it...love doesn't come easy, nobody ever said it would...
So if you want to be with the cute guy, more power to you.
Forget what your ex thinks, his lost. That's why he's your ex...
Good luck mija! ^_~
2006-11-15 21:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋