ok, my best friend's boy friend likes me and all he talks about with her is me and vise versa but... I DON'T LIKE HIM!!...i think?? well often i break up their conversation and stick my hand in his face and make him go away but lately he's been returning my library books and opening the door for me and stuff like that and i'm actually being nice to him and if he asks me out and i say yes my best friend will get mad at me and my reputation will be trashed!!! so am i jealous??? do i like him??? or am i plain just thinking about it too much??? should i go out with him??? should i call it off right now??? HELP!!!(plus he's butt ugly)
2006-11-15 13:21:57 · 14 answers · asked by Haley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call it off, a best friends boyfriend is always off limits. Especially if you value your friendship.
2006-11-15 13:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are people that secretly going out because they don't want other people to know. The thing is, if you wanna make sure why don't you ask your friend one more time. I guess those butterflies can be caused because you're attrated to him(you just like how he looks) or because you really have interest in him. If your friend and this guy are really going out, all I can say is he is not the only guy in your school. I'm pretty sure, you're going to get those butterflies when you see other guys (8
2016-03-28 21:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reputation will be trashed? No offense, but you need to get your priorities in order. Your reputation isn`t nearly as important as your best friend. If you understood that, you wouldn`t need to ask this question.
No good friend would risk the friendship for one stupid guy. Secondly, that is stabbing her in the back; you don`t do that to a friend, thats just common sense. Plus, for good friends and best friends, ex-boyfriends are off limits and you shouldn`t even be thinking about CURRENT boyfriends.
2006-11-15 13:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Sounds to me like you dont like him, YOU just like the attention that he gives you. Thats fine. What i would do is tell me friend what hes exactly doing, and let her know how you feel or no about him.
Shes your best friend she deserves to know if shes being used for someone else, give her the respect that she deserves. Id say hes a creep, and immature. Trust me you done want that type in your life at all, you will just get into trouble.
-James
2006-11-15 13:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEEEEZ!!!!!!! Have you ever seen anyone like a guy that thinks that guy is butt ugly? No i dont think so! If you liked him you would think he's cute in your eye's. So dont go out with him. Try to ignore him if he trys to flirt with you. Tell your friend that hes starting to bug you. try to be a little distant but not too distant for your friends boyfriend. And dont worry I have the same problem!! - _-
2006-11-15 13:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by monpuchi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you sound pretty immature from where I'm sitting. To break up a conversation between two people whether one of them is your best friend or not is extremely childish and rude.
2006-11-15 13:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously just teasing him. You know you like him maybe not physically but you know you do. You wouldn't be asking this if you didn't. Don't be one of those friends that screws their best friends man just wait for them to be over with then move in for the score. (Austin Powers: Yeah Baby!!!!)
2006-11-15 13:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off straight away!!!! Is a guy you're not even sure you like worth risking your friendship for? Think!
2006-11-15 13:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by honeypot56000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO get to the point. Boys come and go,but friends are forever. You know in your heart what to do. Follow your heart.
2006-11-15 13:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 11 years old?
2006-11-15 13:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋