Is it rude for my sisters boyfriend to start doing his laundry while I am in the middle of mine AT MY HOUSE? He put my wet clothes from the washing machine on top of the dryer so he could load his clothes in. I do have a load drying though!!! I still have two more loads to do!!!!!! Is this rude or am I looking for something to B*Tch about?????
2006-11-15 12:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by tramany77 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
NO my house, he does not pay bills here. Stays here a few days a week to be with my sister!
2006-11-15 13:01:50 · update #1
I know I just got rid of a mooch that was living here for over a month free and now this crap. It never ends with rudeness in MY HOUSE!!! I am about to STRANGLE SOMEONE!!! ARGHHHH :)
2006-11-15 13:09:29 · update #2
I think he's an a s s for leaving wet clothes because it stinks up...but it depends if he's paying rent, if you guys have some sort of agreement? It is your house but if you guys had established some sort of rule or guideline then you must abide by it too eventhough it's your house, did he ask if he could do it? Does he carry the same attitude toward other areas in his life?
2006-11-15 12:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by DEVOTED TO YOU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's rude to just throw your clothes out; if nothing else, he could at least inform you that your load was done. My sister and I both have boyfriends that do laundry at my house, but in turns. It sounds like your sister is with a jerk. I'd be more concerned with her actually being serious with someone with that little disregard for someone else. Good luck though.
2006-11-15 13:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it's EVERY RUDE!!!!!! Although,he is a guest in your home,most guests don't bring thier laundry! If he wishs to use the washer,he could put your wet things in the dryer. Now, keep go use the dryer,maybe until ALL your clothes are bone dry. LOL
2006-11-15 13:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is rude. The nice thing to do would be for him to take your DRY clothes out of the dryer, fold them and put the wet clothes in the dryer. Does he pay rent or part of the bills? This also determines his claim over the use of the washer and dryer. If he doesn't pay rent or part of the bills, then he needs to respect your domain over the use of the washer and dryer. In other words, he needs to patiently and gratefully wait his turn!
2006-11-15 13:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being witchy, or anything else, he is really RUDE, is he using your laundry supplies too??, I would tell him to stay out of your laundry room, no exceptions. You don't sound like the kind of gal to get walked over, march into that laundry room, remove his items, put them in a trash bag, front porch, or drive should be fine to get them out of your sight.Tell your Sis, next time, there might be a bleach accident, or better yet, if he is using your detergent, buy the liquid cheer,[the blue one] and add Ritz blue Tye.
2006-11-15 14:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't strangle him, luv. They'd punish you just as much as if you'd killed a human being. Just kick his worthless hind out. You are right: he's rude, and has no rights in your laundry. Tell him. Tell your sister. In fact, tell your sister you'd like to see less of him! Like maybe they should move in together...somewhere else. My opinion, of course, on that last. And put his stuff in the trash, not on the dryer! (also my opinion, there)
2006-11-15 13:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is very rude tell the creep to find a laundry or give you money to put towards your bills.
2006-11-15 19:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest your sister goes to visit him as he obviously has no idea how to conduct himself in someone else's house. What's wrong with your sister that she lets him get away with that?
You're not just looking for something to complain about. You have a legitimate complaint.
I'd be tempted to take his stuff out and drop it on the floor, and put my stuff back in. But then, you're probably nicer than I am.
2006-11-15 15:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set boundaries. I wouldn't allow my sister's bf to do his laundry in my house period. Also do not allow him to stay at your house for even a day let alone few days. As long as they are not married, he is not entitled to stay over. Even if they are, you can set rules. Visit once a year.
2006-11-16 13:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its RUDE, the jerk! Talk to your sister about it. It is YOUR HOUSE. Throw BOTH of them out! See how they like THAT! ^_^ May God bless you, and have a super day!
2006-11-15 13:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by hillbilly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋