Is there anyway he can find out the baby isn't his?
2006-11-15 12:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by orgleeely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well say both my husband and the guy i cheated with are both white.....the baby will look the same right?
2006-11-15 13:09:55 · update #1
If the blood types don't match and he has a modicum of education in biology, he'll figure it out. Even without that, he may figure it out if the baby doesn't look like either one of you.
If you have any decency at all, you'll tell him as soon as possible and let him figure how he should proceed. It is his life too, you know, and he should be able to choose how to live it.
2006-11-15 13:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should come clean with your husband...IF there is a chance the baby is not his, that is something you can not hide, it will eat you up inside for the rest of your life. You need tell him soon before your daughter gets too old so he can know if this baby girl is his daughter or not.
2006-11-15 13:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget IF he can find out and how about he SHOULD find out!
You are doing your daughter a terrible injustice by not revealing that your husband is not her biological father. How can you make that choice for her? She is innocent in all of this.
You need to come clean, have some integrity about yourself, you had an affair, be woman enough to own up to what you did.
How would you feel if this were done to you?
2006-11-15 13:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better do some talking FAST. You also better get an attorney and a paternity test which may be mandated. Next time....keep your legs closed and your mouth open. You are doing a horrible job keeping this from your husband AND your daughter. Start with being HONEST if you have a conscience at all. Freak.
2006-11-15 12:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you stupid? of course he'll probably find out! All he needs to do is run a DNA test and you're in trouble! I am sorry, but to me, you are the worst kind of a human being, if you have the courage to do that to your husband and still "innocently" question if he will find out!
2006-11-15 13:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first: come clean. you are creating a tragedy for your little girl. you knew what you were doing when you slept with the guys. if you had doubts in the beginning you should of been upfront with both guys. second: you are letting one guy miss out on one of the joys of raising his child. and like some others said, what if something happens. who will pay the price,your daughter. tell the truth, and shame the devil.
2006-11-15 13:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yes god forbid your daughter gets sick, needs blood transfusion or something like that.. oh girl please be careful you are playing with fire.. something like that is can make a man go crazy if he finds out..especially cause that is his daughter I don't know why you cheated but this is a huge lie and it really is not fair to your husband, your daughter, or the baby's real father. man u have a problem and no one on here can help u solve it. I hope u can live with yourself. shame shame shame...
2006-11-15 12:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by michelle b 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He may not find out that you cheated on him, but he probably already knows you gave birth to your daughter.
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2006-11-15 12:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will find out if you're not careful. But really is some really does find out and it is the worst of the worst. He can have a DNA test if he is suspecious.
2006-11-15 12:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer you got. Funny, straight and right to the point. So... I believe he deserves 10 points, too.
2006-11-15 13:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by rollodecriente 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋