me personally, i griev for a long time.my now exboyfriend tried with other girl just 5 days after we broke up. after a week,we were back together.but when i learned he was able to try with someone else so quickly,it hurt me deeply...
2006-11-15 12:52:14 · 12 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u will grieve as long as u stay in the past, and blame yourself for it. it didn't just happen overnight, so quickly, it's been in his mind for awhile. yes we will be hurt for sometime, takes time to move on after heartbreak. just something we all must go through in life, it's really a learning process for us, only we can't see it, as were too busy trying to figure out why. sometimes other people's choices in life do break our hearts, and we have no control over what that person chooses to do, we may never know why. but it's how we handle the hurt that is key to our recovery. he just didn't have the self control he should have. personally rather than live with a cheater i would rather deal with the heartbreak now, than again later on. this is who he is, and it really has nothing to do with your self worth. we just have to move forward, and in spite of our hurts, know that pain doesn't leave us where it finds us, that when one door closes another one opens up. often times we put too much trust in people we don't know that well, and we set ourselves up for it.we expect them to be as fair in a relationship as we have been. we don't quite understand how it could happen, well this is who he is and how he thinks.
2006-11-15 13:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex broke up with me long ago, but I never grieved over him. I wasn't attached, so I was able to move on quickly although it took me 5 years to find someone so hot and great!!!
2006-11-15 20:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person...it took me about a month to get over my ex cuz y'know...he was TRASH!! Plus, just cuz you've been hurt, doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there better for you mija...
Just keep you're chin up and dont force yourself to heal...it's going to take some time. ^_^
Good luck!
2006-11-15 21:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not like us. They do not form attachments easily and find it extremely easy to move on. There are exceptions, of course, but they are not the norm. Older men are less likely to be that way but many are.
2006-11-15 20:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not a cut that heal in a few day true love take time, but please don't rush in to anything because when that's over it will take double to get over the old and the new. good luck.
2006-11-15 20:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by pecan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just kick em in the genitals and i feel better
2006-11-15 20:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Yasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me about a month.
2006-11-15 20:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by MIGUEL F V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that happend to me so eat chocolate it mite help im still hurting i cry at night till i cant cry at all
2006-11-15 20:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by fabstar15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had a takutomoveon.
2006-11-15 20:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, that's just the way guys are.
2006-11-15 20:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋