It's well confirmed that there are something like 9 white men dating asian women for every white woman dating an asian man. I used to think that was because asians were "fetishized" by american media. But while visiting China, the people there told me that its really white men who have been sexualized by asian media. And so I'm wondering, is it a problem that asian-american romances are so one sided?
2006-11-15 12:51:37 · 14 answers · asked by bowlingcap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a problem for asain dudes, I would think....
2006-11-15 12:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by aloha_joe2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dating itself may not be the problem. It is the intentions of the white man and the Asian woman involved that is the problem.
Most of the time white men date poor and rural Asian women. Reason being ,the man is just looking for pleasure, no strings attached during his stay in Asia. He may even marry her but that is just in the interest of immigration. The day he decides to leave the country he will leave the woman behind also. As for the womanm well she is poor and needs the money to support her family. So she says what the heck, my family will be happy too and I will also have a rich dollar bearing provider, even if it is just for a while.
2006-11-15 12:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by harsh_bkk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok so lemme get this straight... White media fetishizes asian chicks. Asian media fetishizes white guys. Result: white guys and asian chicks get together with a higher frequency than asian guys and white chicks.
What exactly is so surprising here? I would think that the result is exactly what the expected outcome would be, given the conditions you have described.
2006-11-15 12:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by kingdom_of_gold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probable many statistics out there right now regarding racial relations. We have every race with every other race now. I think you see more of it today due to the vast increases in population and also dropping the barriers to interacial relationships. For example the "social out casting" if someone chose to be with someone other than their own race back 30 or so years ago. Who knows, in a thousand years the human race could just be one color. It may or may not be a problem depending on who you ask? In the end time will tell, but for now my Asian wife keeps me happy.
2006-11-15 13:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shiva07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's awfully weird. Guys are...attracted by many things. They could like Asian food! They could think she's pretty! They could have known her forever and it got to them! Think of it reason one could be possible! Think of it:
You know Nicolas Cage is dating an asian woman 20 years younger than him? Do you know where he met her? An asian restaurant and SHE was the server see something awkward there?
2006-11-15 12:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Paola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if more yellow men had white women as girlfriends or wives.
It's not a problem that that's not the case, but things would probably be better if it was.
2006-11-15 12:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asian.. good
Chick gooood..
wheres the problem
2006-11-15 12:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by pakachuchu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I guess it can depend. If I guy is only dating her with "one" thing on his mind, sure..I would consider that a problem. But other than that, why does it matter?
2006-11-15 12:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... well lets see, white guys + asian chicks, black guys + white chicks, where does it end?... everyone will soon be one color!
2006-11-15 12:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with asian chicks? theyre not too bad
2006-11-15 12:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋