how do u get over ur boyfriend?
2006-11-15 12:07:38 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Jessie♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him alone. u have to seperate ur self from him physically then it'll be easier to seperate emotionally. u should also find things to occupy urself and people to be with so u wont think about him much.......i know it worked 4 me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-15 12:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweetnuthinz06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same thing right now, I find keeping the mind occupied is key. Make sure your days are extra busy so you can sleep easy at night. I literally run my butt off all day, so I can collaps when its time to get into bed. Also I got a small dog, that needs alot of love. Which helps. I hope I could be of some help.
2006-11-15 12:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by she_daboss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard if you really love someone. It's gonna take time. Just focus on you and all the things that make you happy. And if your not sure what that is anymore go figure it out. If you have friends that usually helps go clubbing, do some male bashing, and find new guys. I always say all it takes to get over one boy is another.
2006-11-15 12:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Frisco Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I broke up with my boyfriend, I just kept myself busy hanging out with my friends and made some male friends until I was over him and ready to date again.
2006-11-15 12:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by pickee_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way is to realize that your time was NOT wasted, you learned something that you WILL use later on in your life. Additionally, you need to realize that it was not him that made you happy but in reality, the love that you BELIEVED was between you two, if the relationship broke up, than the love was not really there and you learned something.
2006-11-15 12:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by TheTechKid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL ACCORDING TO MY FRIENDS: I NEED TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE. BUT THAT IS NOT HOW I WANT TO DO THIS, ONE, I AM MARRIED TO THE PERSON, AND TWO, I REFUSE TO HAVE A GUILTY CONSCIOUS. I HAVE BEEN CRYING A LOT, SPENDING TIME WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY. YOU MAY NOT BE SPIRITUAL, BUT ANOTHER WAY IS THAT I JUST KEEP TELLING MYSELF OVER AND OVER THAT IT'S IN GOD'S HANDS. IT SEEMS TO BE UPLIFTING, AT LEAST TO ME. GOOD LUCK THOUGH; I KNOW IT'S HARD AND IT HURTS.
2006-11-15 12:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know the answer to this one,,has been 8 years for me,,since my ex fiance broke it off without giving me a reason! I think about her almost everyday,,,would like really like to call her and ask why,but,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,chicken s*** to call her, have been told to find someone new and I will forget her,,not sure what the correct answer is for you,,,find someone new and move on,,,,,good-luck
2006-11-15 12:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wht works best for me isnt recommended by dr phil, but screw him. i use hate and anger. get mad at him, how dare him. wht a jerk. how could he? if u develope this anger and blame him, u'll put urself above him. eventually, u'll get over him. i got over an ex this way, and ended up bein really good friends with her later, but it worked for the time.
2006-11-15 12:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by HW-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first give yourself some space from him and hang out with your friends and get back in touch with some things you had to give up while you were together.
2006-11-15 12:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by C J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't control your heart. so you can't just be like oh i don't like him anymore. the best way is to try and move on and talk to other guys, forget about him, and start liking new ones. good luck =)
2006-11-15 12:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by soccerwarrior00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋