There is a guy in my school that I like and his name is John. He called me ugly twice but after that he stopped.He always finds some excuse to mess with me, even if its stupid or not. For example, on Friday he asked me where I was from and on thursday he was joking around with one of his friends and he said that I took his friend's jacket (as a joke). Whenever I see him, hes usually looking at me and smiling and talking to his friends at the same time. Yesterday he was across the street from me and he was staring at me pratically.He came to the park yesterday and was near me.Today my friends gave him my myspace and they told me that he ripped it. And then he was looking for me but he couldn't find me. It seems that he does and then it seems as if he doesn't. WHAT IS GOING ON?Does he like me? Thanks!
2006-11-15 12:00:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is just making a joke out of you.
2006-11-15 12:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you? - YES
What's going on? - I would say that John is experiencing mixed emotions and is unsure how to proceed with them. Most people get messed up when they experience emotions for the opposite/same gender for the very first time.
His way of joking with you might be his way of subtly telling you that he's interested. The staring, the glances, all tell me that he is certainly wanting you to be with him (unless you have some sort of huge deformity that he is staring at - which I doubt ).
Ask him point blank - Do you like me? Do you want to go to a movie or something? and see what he says.
If he says yes - then enjoy!
If he says no - then move on.
You gave him a chance and if he didn't jump at it then he's the big fool in all of this.
2006-11-15 20:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo, honey, he doesn't. He's just being a retard. The whole staring thing and him being "near" you at the park could be misinterpreted by you...he's probably told his friends that YOU like him and is thinking it's funny, believe me. You shouldn't give a crap about him. If he liked you he would act a little more interested...
2006-11-15 20:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-15 20:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, yeah, he digs you. hes just dumb. bigger question...are you into be treated badly by guys that like you? if not, then dont give him your attention, until he comes around the propper way. dont let him weasel his way in, or you will be setting up a pattern. it sounds idiotic, but its true. If he wants you, make him come on like a gentleman. believe me, youll be so much better off.
2006-11-15 20:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the way things sound i think he definitely likes you. he's probably just not wanting to admit it to himself yet, that would explain his little feeling swings. just go with the flow, if he truly does things will play out just fine.
2006-11-15 20:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't bother with him!!!! Don't give him another chance to hurt you. He is playing with you. Ignore him completely. You will be better off without that kind of tension....
2006-11-15 20:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by ALIBUGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is interested in you but is on the shy side just wait and see what happens good things come to those who wait
2006-11-15 20:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me he likes you, but he doesn't want anyone including you to know that he likes you I guess you just have to keep playing this little game with him until he figures out what he is doing
2006-11-15 20:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya he likes you but is too chicken to admitt to it. so just play along
2006-11-15 20:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋