none of them have the same dad and i'm pregnet again with another guy HELP PLZ
2006-11-15 11:42:17 · 45 answers · asked by MALORIE 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Well if your 15 and have 3 kids you need to stop having sex and get on birth control. Obvioulsy your not taking care of them on your own because if you was you would have stopped on the first one. So stop using people and get off you butt and stop having KIDS.
2006-11-15 11:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really serious, this is extremely sad. I hope to God this is not really the situation you are in. I am 30 years old, & my husband & I are trying to have a baby. I'm not sure if you just don't quite understand the full responsibility of having a child, or if you think this is all fun & games...There are so many couples in this world that would do anything to be able to have a baby & can't. You have 3 & another one on the way...WOW! I can't imagine what is going through your mind, you are just a little girl yourself that has not a clue what life is about, & to me, if you cared about yourself & your children, you would've done something the first time to prevent this from happening yet another 3 times. And the worst thing is that the kids are the ones who have to pay for your mistakes & suffer. Be responsible & get some kind of help from somewhere!
2006-11-15 18:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by tlcss06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to a professional. talk to a guidance counsler, social services, a counsler at planned parenthood or the right to life groups if you don't do abortions. but look in the phonebook under pregancy or abortion and there are a lot of numbers you can call. and whoever in your family is helping you with the other children needs to be there as well when you talk.
also sue everyone of the fathers for parental support. get it down in the law books. so whenever they get a job where they pay taxes it shows on the record that they need to pay child support. even if they don't pay at first, they will eventually. be sure of the parentage. but still sue for child suport. it takes two to be irresponsible.
you have shown you are not mature enough to be having sex BUT what's done is done. i have seen to many folks on oprah and other shows who put 3-5 kids through school and were young single moms who had children out of wedlock. you can make it. you can raise these children and finish school and be a success. there are groups who can and will help. it will not be easy. it wil be a lot of hard work and lots of sacrafice. but it can be done.
if this is actually a serious question (as some have asked), then some of the folks who answered should be ashamed. any child who would have 3 kids and a 4th on the way by the age of 15 obiviously has lots of issues. if she could stop having sex she would have, if she knew how to use birth control she would have, i f she had good parents, again she would not have 3, now 4 kids . so some of your answers really are stupid and just mean.
2006-11-15 12:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by kdf_333 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont get mad at me for saying this and rip me for what im about to say but the one reason your getting pregnet is the fact you cant keep your legs closed for starts and im sure you dont use condoms or birth control.. Thier is really nothing nobody can do to help you but yourself.. Stop sleeping around and be smart when you do have sex no glove no love is what i always say as i dont want or need a kid and so far im kid free with the help of condoms and a girl thats on the pill which you should have been doing a long long time ago 15 and 4 kids already i fell for you but you layed down and did it yourself now you got to face the facts and deal with your problem.. I wish you the best of luck though..
2006-11-15 23:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by micheal p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness. I have two kids and they drive me crazy and I am 30. Raising children is very costly as you already no. I hope your family is giving you the support that you need. I have some concern for you though. You are so young and a baby yourself. You will not be able to enjoy your childhood the way you should.
I advise you to stop having sex. After you first child you should have realized how difficult it was. Then after you second. What were you thinking hon. I am not trying to degrade you but help you. I also want to tell you that I am single and I have a hard time getting guys when they find out I have two children. The guys you are with now are not helping you. Plus watch out for STDs.
2006-11-15 13:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Staci R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all where is your momma? You need to have someone take you to family planning because you are on the fourth child which means you are not responsible enough to handle your business. If this is for real stop laying down so easily with these guys. Next time instead of another baby it can be AIDS you end up with. Plus you are in the wrong category.
2006-11-15 14:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by msmonabiz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are u having sex so YOUNG?!
give it up for adoption if u can't handle another kid... see a psychiatrist... talk to an adult- ANYONE u can trust (how about ur parents? do they even noe about this? how do they feel about u having 3 almost 4 kids?!)... and the best thing to do for the future is ABSTIINENCE until married when ur at a responsible age when ur life is settled and u have a good career that can support urself and ur kids.
ur young! be young! act young! have fun and have the time of ur youthful life while u can! u'll have plenty of times in the future to make kids!
go and be a kid!
2006-11-15 14:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffy Ly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, where are your parents? Are they helping you or are you on your own? Are the fathers helping you? If not, have you considered adoption? It may seem horrible, but it would help you out alot, and in the long run, be better for your kids. You need to be able to go to college so you can get a substantial job. You're way too young to have to deal with a responsibility like motherhood.
2006-11-15 12:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Emma S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first break up with whoever you're having sex with, he's a player, next slow down wait till you're married for the next kid, if there is anymore, now give your kids all your attention but continue with highschool, the worst thing is to have kids and not have a highschool diploma, do you wanna flip burgers all your life? Then get involved with abstinence groups talk to other people about it, helping other stay virgins kinda helps you. Then plan your life out and think do you want your kids to be dissapointed of you because of your past, or proud because of what you are going to give them.
2006-11-15 12:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by SoccerChick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!! Where are your parents? 3 kids at 15 an 1 on the way oh dear some people should be jailed you are a baby yourself, an who are these fathers??
2006-11-15 11:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋