What should I do :( I am sitting here in tears every time I think about it.
2006-11-15 11:04:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi Danielle, i am really sorry to hear about this.. they are both assholes.. as sad as it is, be glad that you found out the truth about him before you went further.
get them both out of your life and try to start over after you have had a chance to let it all sink in.
there are lots of nicer and better people out there in the world. you'll find a new best friend and you'll find a new boyfriend. you deserve better, and you will find better!
2006-11-15 11:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believed they don't deserved to be your best friend as well as your bf. You have to be strong and carry on with your life. It is very hard to accept the fact that those closest to you can do such thing behind your back and it hurts a lot when you realised it. But what happened cannot be undone already, so just carry on with your life and forget this incident. I hope time can slowly heal your wounds. Forget the whole thing and look forward, there are many people around you that cares and concerned about you. I believed there are people who will treat you better than your ex bf. All the best to you
2006-11-15 19:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They did you a biggest favor.
A real Best friend would not do such a horrible thing.
She is a HO. You got rid of her. Thank god!
And Your Boyfriend is not better. The deserve each other.
It must feel horrible right now. But it will get better.
You are a winner in this situation!
Put your head up and smile!!!
There are lots of good people out there still.
2006-11-15 19:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by tanyasiv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're not worth it. find a new boyfriend and a new best friend. She couldn't have been a very good one if she allowed this to happen. Your ex is a selfish, self centered jerk and he didn't really care about you either. You don't need people like that in your life. You a wonderful person that deserves the best. Go and find it somewhere else...................it's out there..
2006-11-15 19:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good opportunity for you to have a new start. Life is a learning process. You have learn what is friendship betrayer. Let go the junk and get some new sincere friends.
2006-11-16 02:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear girl, nothing is perfect in life.
sometimes there are tears and sometimes there are happiness.
take your time to heal.
learn to love yourself more.
when you are back to yourself, you can know more friends through the norm way as much as possible, example taking a course in the community centre.
learn through your mistakes not run away from it.
ps: do not have sex before marriage if at all possible because it ruins many things in life before marriage.
cheers and good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-16 00:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. I have such experience before. My gf and my best fren went to bed one day... and the worst thing is... they were in my bedroom... !!! was so sad and angry at that time... chased both of them out of the house... ever since then, nvr contacted them anymore... I feel that those ppl that cheats, is not worth u miss to lo.. of coz, it will takes time before it will heal... but most important thing is to let go... forget abt him and her... carry ur own life with...
2006-11-15 21:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna hurt for a while but you should definatly find a new best friend. My best friend would never do anything like that...nobody's should! and dont be sad about the boyfriend, be mad about it and move on.
2006-11-15 19:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by june.thirteenth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that she was not ur real bestfriend and ur b.f didn't really luv u. So u should stop crying and move on because there are a whole lot of cute, sexy guys out there.
2006-11-15 19:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Abena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get both of them out of your life. You deserve better. It hurts now but later you will look back and think how foolish you were. It always gets better.
2006-11-15 19:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Robbyz3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋