I'm not talking stocks and a cat'o'nine tails here, just some gentle S&M. Should this streak be revealed at the beginning of a relationship or should you wait a while?
2006-11-15 11:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love women who are sexually adventurous. Nothing wrong with gentle S&M, B&D, T&D, CBT, COB, or CIF.
2006-11-17 09:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mate told me tonight a story of him and this girl at the weekend. She did stuff to him that had obviously been practised before, but not with him. If it had been me I'd have had a wonderful time, but I know I couldn't help thinking how she'd gotten so good, and would I want her as a girlfriend. However given my record this would be hipocritical and I guess it's more important how you get on with one another. Many relationships break up because partners are not able to be open with one another and when they are they can freak the other person out. You are lucky that you've been given an opportunity to see what turns this girl on. If you're up for it then go with it, if not then no harm done!
2006-11-15 19:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by steigerwoods 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont think a kinky or an adventurous women is scarey.. its great when you dont have to be the one doing stuff all the time...what i do find scarey though is a women; or anyone, coming at me with d**do and nipple clamps..i mean how kinky are you?
you should be able to gauge what your fella is like now at the begining, as you both wont last if either of you are frusturated that you cant do what gets you off... but should not go all out on your first sex session.... you may find that he wouldn't like it done to him but wouldn't mind doing a little to you as i think the site of you getting off on it will be exciting to him...
good luck
2006-11-15 19:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by jimbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you currently in a relationship? If not, then maybe look for someone similar, else just leave it a while, and talk about it before hand, don't just spring it in the middle of foreplay.
Personally I'd revel in a woman who knew what she wanted and asked for it, but I know others would freak, so nice and easy.
2006-11-15 19:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How kinky are we talking about here?, never give away everything at the beginning if you do what is there left to do?.
2006-11-15 19:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ensure you have a password that means STOP something that is unusual like ZEBRA - Have fun but Non means Non
2006-11-15 19:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should wait when you trust each other better, otherwise too much information could scare them off
2006-11-15 19:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are afraid of sexually aggressive women. Make sure you find out where he stands to see if he compatible with you.
2006-11-15 19:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while and slowly get into it. But really no, she can't be.
Or at least for my taste!
2006-11-15 19:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like to be the sexually educated one so it has to be a discovery acted out together!!
So for most men the answer is yes!
2006-11-15 19:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋