So I have two guy friends who i've known forever and we use to chill all the time but now they only wanna hang out with me when they think i'll give up something . Why are they like that? should i let them go as my friends.
2006-11-15 10:58:56 · 10 answers · asked by highschoolshorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you give something up that gave them that idea? Guys don't get this out of thin air. You must have indicated somewhere along the line that you would do things with them.
If you want it to stop, let them know that you find their behavior to be disrespectful and that if they want to remain friends of yours, they need to start behaving like gentlemen when you're together.
2006-11-15 11:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to give them anything and if that is all they are after then you do not need them...guys even male friends should treat you with respect and you should not be with anyone unless it is something you really want to do....and i think a lot of guys are out for just one thing...you may find some nice ones once in a while but i think they all think with the wrong head so to speak...sorry to say it like that....
2006-11-15 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can be your friends but if they ever do make a move you better let them know straight up that you are not going down like that and that you don't want to do anything that would jeopordize the friendship. Boyz will be boyz, I had a friend like that but he changed cuz now he respects the fact that I'm not giving anything up and it could mess up our friendship.
2006-11-15 11:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you give it up to them in the past?
That may be why they think that way now.
Keep the legs closed and see if they still want to "chill" with you.
Having friends is good, friends with benefits is better.
2006-11-15 11:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable about the situation, then yes, definitely cut them out of your life. Make sure that you are not giving your friends the wrong impression in the future.
2006-11-15 11:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given them a reason to think that you will give up something. most guys are only going on what they know
2006-11-15 11:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not the kind of friend you want. Pretty typical for guys their age. Just say no and see if they'll continue to be friends. If they don't, don't take it personally. Take pity on them, they're missing out not you.
2006-11-15 11:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by JENNY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that's all they want. Could be they both want you in many ways. If you say no to sex and he goes away, so what?
2006-11-15 11:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find better friends, u dont deserve to be treated like that
2006-11-15 11:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them why they are acting like that if they don't answer or give a lame answer send them horny frogs leap-pin
2006-11-15 11:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋