i am 22 years old. i know this girl for 3 years she was like an angle for me. someone that was always there for me no matter what, she used to tell me that she would do anything just not to lose me. I was really kind to her and everytime she needed someting i was there for her and never said no to her. all the sudden she changed her attituude towards me, and she started being mien to me and i felt that she is ignoring me. I tired so manytimes to find out what is wrong with her but she didn't show me any signs. so i got tired of this drama, the last attempt i made was i sent her an email and told her how much i miss her and i really want her back and i asked her why is is ignoring me? I waited for 10 days to see if she is ganna call me but she didn't, so what i did was i change my ph # so that i wouldn't have to deal with her drama anymore. i am sure i will see her again, and if she wanted to talk to me and if she asked me why i didn't give my # to her what should i say? any ideas?
2006-11-15 10:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by Nick J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell her exactly what you have said right here. I feel somethings been left out though.
Why would she all of a sudden ignore you? Did something happen that you didn't tell us about?
When you do see her again you can explain that how she has been has hurt you and you changed your phone number because you figured she didn't want to talk to you anyway... since she hasn't responded to your email or bothered to call you.
I think you changed your number so that if she did try calling she can't reach you and you are showing that you aren't going to be sitting by the phone waiting.
2006-11-15 10:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Well if i may say this, it sounds like your girl is seeing or likes another man. Take it from a girl. And if she asks you why you didnt give her your number, tell her the truth. If she breaks up with you, thats the way it should be. Even though i dont know you, i dont want you to get abused by words. Hope my advice works!!
2006-11-15 10:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Marshmellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your a man? I surprised a man would use the word "Drama". I always hear chics use that term. But oh well.
Do you really want more DRAMA in your life? Why give her your number if she asks? If you can't be totally honest with her then just say, really? My number doesn't work? and then excuse yourself that you have to go...and walk away.......
2006-11-15 10:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right this is a drama, if after 3 years she wouldn't tell you whats going on then what else can you do, leave her alone let her work out her problem.
2006-11-15 10:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth....you figured she didn't want anything to do with you since she didn't bother to respond to any of your attempted contacts Also, you could tell her that you really don't care to deal with her drama anymore!
2006-11-15 10:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking, then you probably (deep down) think you didn't do the right thing.
But what matters here is not what you think but what you feel. Do you wanna see her? See her. Do you wanna know what happened? Ask her.
2006-11-15 14:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, explain to her how you view the situation ask her to give you the same respect then go from there...
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-15 10:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to juzz relax if you do see her... ignore her.... and yes... i noe it sounds selfish or rude to do that.... but u attempted to many times already so juzz yea.. act normal and hope u find someone else... and im only a 14 year old..... i had alot of relationships....
2006-11-15 10:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u was wrong maybe she was pregant or going though some hard things and u just lost ur patience so i think u should apojze
2006-11-15 10:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋