2006-11-15 10:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by rpcubs21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By just relaxing and being yourself......
It's not as big a deal as you're making it.
2006-11-15 10:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) this is my advice to you, because what made ME shy was
1) my appearance - i felt ugly, or not "pretty" like the other girls
2) my mind - what if other people thought i was "stupid" and laughed at what i say?
3) relationships with people - i was fun and happy w/ friends, but whenever there were strangers, adults, teachers, etc i would get SO stressed out, blush, sweat , everything!
the less WORRIED u are about ur looks and ur mind, the easier it will be for you to speak to people and meet new friends! this will help u with a lot of things; family, friends, relationships, teachers, work, etc...
so, work on ur appearance: work out, exercise, take care of ur skin and body. buy flattering, stylish clothes. get a new haircut.
work on ur mind: study more, read more, learn more, keep an Open mind. get some activities, join some clubs, excel at hobbies. the more u KNOW the easier it will be for u to interact w/ people.
work on ur relationships: start w/ family, then friends, eventually friends w/ friends, strangers! this will help when u go to parties and stuff.. and remember, since u LOOK good and Know a lot, u won't be As shy!!
good luck and don't worry.. u can always learn more, change more, grow more tomorrow!! even if u make a mistake today, say something stupid, etc it's ok. :) it's all a learning experience~~
2006-11-15 18:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic, though girls sometimes find it cute when a guy is slightly at a loss for words. Don't panic. the worst that can happen is she'll say no and you'll have to move on. It's better to know then lust after pointlessly. Girls hate possers so don't lie about yourself. Ask her about herself and what's up. Everyday talk. Just keep your cool mentally. Don't go for the sluts or people who have a different male every week, go for the quieter ones or just the everyday girl who will listen and you can talk to. Remember apperence isn't everything so don't worry about it. Good Luck. And don't worry, you'll find the right girl someday.
2006-11-15 18:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by dragongirl_92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and think it's just a regular person
2006-11-15 18:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by EaSt OaKlanD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be calm and even if your not most girls think thats cute. Just pretend your talking to your best friend.
2006-11-15 18:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath and don't try so hard it will all work out for you
2006-11-15 18:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋