I'm not ' one of the guys' but i cant seem to figure out why i cant get a date.. I love to go fishing, playing pool, watching t.v, drinking brews and hanging out. but i also love walks on the beach, beautiful places ,traveling and dining out.. so i guess i just want to ask the guys.. whats wrong with that?!
2006-11-15 10:26:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a female!
2006-11-15 10:30:21 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with that. One problem is that maybe a lot of men you are meeting don't like that or you are not getting out there and finding available guys. Are you overly picky on the type of man you will only date? You also might need to look in the mirror and mind your dress and style. Also work on your flirting and interactions with men. Two words: Self-confidence. If you are doing any of the said mentioned, then you shouldn't have problems meeting and dating guys.
2006-11-15 10:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clingy isn't for everybody! If you know that your a clingy guy perhaps you should specify that you want a clingy girlfriend. That way, your not disappointed and the girl knows what to expect from you, so she is less inclined to do you wrong or dump you. But A LOT of women prefer Confidence and independence in a man. Some women want the chase of wondering, is he thinking about me? and wow he really has it together on his own. They like a man that is complete and strong and often misjude Clingyness as Neediness, which could give an immature impression like, "Gosh he needs me for everything which could turn into resentmen rather than excitement. And of course there are plenty of women that would love to feel like their man needs them and always wants to cling to them and be under them (even when they act like they don't like to their friends). But in reality Your woman shouldn't define you, she should enhance you! and if you are being clingy with a woman who prefers and independant type of guy you are setting yourself up for a problem and rejection. Nobody wants that, so if you know that you are a clingy guy, you can make mention when you meet women that your very physical and really enjoy being close. That way they can chose whether they like that (and will date you) or they won't like it and you both can be glad that you didn't waste any time finding that out! Now don't go scaring girls off, because clingy & jealousy often go hand and hand and if a woman is independant and has a healthy social life (friends, gatherings etc.) outside of you, she will be less inclined to date you if you are the type that would rather she stay close to you than go out with her family or friends. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, Its ok to love but to Cling is not always invited. Thats why its important to keep it real about yourself from the gate, that way everybody knows how to roll with eachother, they know what is acceptable and what is not. Then they choose to be a part of it, or to part with it! I hope that this information is helpful to you! Take care.
2016-03-19 08:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse your statement. Change things around so that your last choices become your first. Unless you're OK with finding some rough dag who also wants to drink brews and hang out.
He'll probably enjoy hanging out in front of your friends as well.
Set yourself some new standards.
At first I assumed that you were a guy. Til I saw some of the other answers.
2006-11-15 10:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! where are you at so we can hook up. i love hangin out and having fun. all of the above and throwin down some brewskis. even makin an *** of myself to lighten up the situation a little if need be. i like to dine out, enjoy a nice, quiet, pretty location to just spend time witha girl, but I CANT GET A DATE EITHER!!!. what the hell? i was stood up and cancelled for dates by 2 girls the same week! after the first one just flat out never got back to me on our date, i called another one the next day, set up a date, and she said she couldn't cuz she was busy with school projects and homework.......................after she told me she would go out.
so, there's really nothing wrong with you. nothing just seems to work out. just keep trying with the guys and maybe one will eventually click. that's all.
2006-11-15 10:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Barring some self-inflicted disease like anorexia or obesity or other severe psychological issues, you seem like a catch (except that I would put a wood maul through any T.V. that crossed the threshold of my house.... sorry).
2006-11-15 10:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, sometimes you have to go after what your looking for, things don't allways just come to you.
2006-11-15 10:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby it is the guys you are trying to attract,age plays a big part in attitude.Some times it may be your style, or how aproachable you are. there is a thousand varables here.
2006-11-15 10:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by byourownjudge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im a girl. All I can say is have you asked eney one out
2006-11-15 10:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
!. Ask more .....
2. Dont' ask for a date. Ask for fishing, pool, drinking etc. companion.
2006-11-15 10:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Treebeard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would help to know if you are male or female!
2006-11-15 10:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋