I am 12 years old and my sometime I feel like a parentless child I need help. I do not want to talk to them?

Question

they just won't listen to me they are to strict and to buisy worring about they're selves
my dad is a bigger problem for me he wonts a devorce and I think that just won't work for me.HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Someone is impersonating me - see the dreadful b.itchy comments that were made to you above.

I apologise for such unnecessary rudeness - I hope everything works out in your family situation. Divorce is devastating for the children

Answer 2

I'm so sorry that you are going through this!I know this must be so hard on you!!But,parents staying together just for their children isn't always good for the children.You might be happier if they didn't live together.Maybe you can talk to your parents and tell them how you feel.Maybe if your dad really wants a divorce you can talk him and get him to separate instead of getting a divorce.Pray about it!That always works!God Bless you!

Answer 3

i'm really sorry... :( my parents got divorced when i was 5.. i still remember when they fought, and i was only 3 yrs old!

now, just to let u know my situation.. for the longest time i didn't understand the divorce, i LOVED my dad.. i didn't understand why he left, and i wished and prayed everyday they would get together again. i would tell my mom if she got remarried i would run away! but now that i'm older, i can completely see why we were better off w/o him. but of course as a child, it's very hard, and for your parents, i'm sure it is very hard.

first of all, my advice would be to try to write out a letter of all your feelings. if u feel strong enough, give it to ur parents, and ask them if u can speak with them at a later time. also, u have to try to be understanding.... if ur dad wants a divorce, it is not Because of you, or to Hurt you.. it is a larger, Huge problem within the family as a whole..and as a part of that family u need to do waht u can to support and Help them.

sometimes as a kid u may feel unimportant, or unable to do anything. but u are definitely important to ur parents, and u can do what you can to get some answers, and TRY to help them figure things out..... at least let them know u care enough to want to discuss things, instead of hiding or not talking to them or being angry. good luck, and be strong... this is something no child should go through, but since ur family is going thru hardships, u need to do ur best to go thru it with them *together* , or u risk having bad relationships w/ both of them. take care~~

Answer 4

Talk to a nearby relative or a school counselor or some of your teachers who seem compassionate. You might try leaving notes about the house for your mom and dad that youre there and you know that they are having difficulties and that you also need someone to talk to? Ask them...where do I go for questions and answers if I cant go to you?
Good luck dear. Peace.

Answer 5

Girl I now what you are feeling my parents are like that too. Mine are divored and are stricked. All you can do is talk to your parents and say that you think you need a little more freedom. But you are only 12 and you probably know the world is scary and they wont to keep you safe. Them getting a divorce you can't do much about, but talk to them.

Answer 6

parent divorce ...its non of your business its good for you and your menal health too get off of your dads stupid dicstions.
my dad divorced two times...he said he met the most meanest lady in thwe world.
dont worry...what will happen well happen.
tell you dad
"im bearly 12...and you want my middle school and my home life miserable?! why did you marry in the frist place...your ruing your own daughters life..dont you even care?!"

its okay too yell..he has broken the bibles law your heart and life and your mothers desperate cries your dad has puttin you in a very sad place.




stricked
right now your mother and father is probly thinking
"i have too be stricked so she can have fear of me and obey me for the rest of her life..."

or it might be...
"i have too save my daughter so she can have a good life!!"
niether way one good thing will make a bad in another way.
they have no rightes too yell at you for a stupid reason.
tell them too back off of your private life and only let them hear your sadness.
parents always think the oppistie of life.

Answer 7

MAKE A "MEETING TIME" with them (and any other connected-family.)
Make sure EVERYBODY SITS DOWN AT THE TABLE to discuss "what is happening," Arm yourself with all the reference info. you can find about families in your situation.
The point is to "air out" each closet to find what is not matching and to find ways to make each kog in the wheel fit.

Answer 8

i know where your coming from, your like me when I was 12 years old and I had no one to talk to....soo yah message me sometime if you wanna talk. [e-mail]

Answer 9

Whether or not your dad wants a divorce is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! It's your Mom and Dad's business. If you do not want to talk to your parents then YOU are the one being selfish. Either open up and talk or suffer the consequences. Find another trusted adult to speak with if you have to.

Answer 10

go to an adult that you trust and that you can talk to, either family, a teacher at school, or a church Pastor.