hi guys...it's about 5 weeks that i have met a girl...i am really sure that she is interested in me and loves me...she keeps asking me if i love her or not...but everytime i ask her to become my girlfriend she says let's just be friends for now...i really dont know wut i should do...i just want to get closer to her...im sick and tired of this situation!!!
2006-11-15 10:17:19 · 15 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it one more try Ali...it sounds like she is stringing you along or setting you up as a back up plan. If she responds the same, then just agree, "good idea, lets just be friends" smile and walk away.
2006-11-15 10:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She keeps asking about love after 5 weeks ? You may both be interesting but love after only 5 weeks is mental problem, insecure . . . has issues ! Unless you spend 24 hours a day together at least 6 days a week, you would not have time to know the other person well enough to know IF it is love. You do not know if it is love until you have had to deal with hard times, (like death in the family, illness, big financial problem), then you can tell by how they deal with you if it is love or not.
Love is known by deeds, NOT words . . .
If you are sick & tired after 5 weeks, it iis NOT love.
2006-11-15 18:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into things. You have only known her for 5 weeks just be patient and get to know each other a little before your hit things off. If you keep bugging her about going out with you then you could possibly scare her away and that is the last thing that you want to happen.
2006-11-15 18:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u need to stop this nonsense..she is twisting u around her little finger, and perhaps she is confused as well, but it doesn't matter... obviously u know what you want, and she doesn't. she just wants u to hang around, she just wants to make sure u are gonna be there no matter what, but without any Committment. which is Weird, and Never a good sign, whether u are in ur teens or older. =T
what u need to do is tell her straight out, "i like you, and want u to be my girlfriend. if u don't want to, it's ok, i'm not mad, but i'm not gonna be hanging around as much anymore cuz i got to figure out my own life." and u need to stop spending so much time w/ her, and try to meet new people. u have to VALUE ur feelings.. u like her right? isn't that important? isn't that good enough? if she doesn't like u back, or is in a bad situation, or is unsure, ok fine. but in the end it all means that she's not Validating your feelings, and not willing to communicate whether or not she wants the same things. So~~~~ u gotta move on. don't be mean, but don't pretend to be her friend hoping she'll change her mind.. just let her know how u feel, and move on. let her persuade u that she's changed, don't keep going after someone who is unsure about YOU.
2006-11-15 18:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like that you like her more then she likes you for if she really loves as she is saying she would be you in a heartbeat telling a guy that we are friends is a girl way of letting him go so find yourself another that will jump at the chance to be with you as you want to be with her
2006-11-15 18:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give this girl some space I am sure she cares about you but maybe a bit worried about commitment, and if you really are fed up ask her face to face what she wants out of your relationship
2006-11-15 18:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by ann jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you. Women can be very manipulative.
You should try to move on. If it's meant to be then, it'll happen eventually. She's just winding you up. Some girls do it because it makes them feel more wanted. Maybe you should just sit back, play it cool and keep your options open.
2006-11-15 18:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple - after FIVE WEEKS YOU SHOULD NOT BE TALKING ABOUT OR CONSIDERING LOVE.
Love should not come up for months and months and months. Be cool. Don't rush things. Don't get pushy. Don't jump into anything that you will surely regret later. Take time.
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2006-11-15 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she asks tell her NO & see what she does. BTW I am a woman & she sounds like a player or someone that needs to be played.
2006-11-15 18:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being sick and tired she is playin ya if she asks if you love her then she just wants to be friends move on find somebody worthy of you and your love.
2006-11-15 18:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋