I council young coulples and the same questions come up time and time,,, so what i want to know is in marriage what is acceptable,,,, is foreplay?
i have found enough bible to be abe to say without a doubt that annal is wrong,,,
what about oral,,,is this premitted,?
all opions are welcome but i am looking for bible scripute to back up what your answer is,,, so any help will be helpful....i need to be able to answer these questions with some evidence to show in bible,,,,
2006-11-15 09:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by technician68 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I've been married 28 years ,and it's still in doubt .It seems the spirit and the flesh are somewhat incompatible .You can do what you want, it seems to quench the spirit tho for a time .
2006-11-15 10:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by rl153 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my serious answer: Why is it anyone's business what young married couples do in their bedrooms? What's next? Are the Christians going to start trying to tell other Christians what type of underwear they can wear or whether or not they should be allowed to shave their pubic region? Or maybe all your women should cover themselves in no less than 20 layers of clothes head to toe and all be made to wear chastity belts.... And maybe no Christian should be able to have sex at all without a preacher present to make sure it's right by God...
Wow. I thought I'd heard everything. This makes me feel very blessed that I'm not of Christian faith.
2006-11-15 18:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have the verse off hand (very sorry) but I do recall during pre-marital counselling from a book we were assigned to read that it said non-intercourse sex acts should only be used as a temporary measure (the exact example was women who don't climax during sex---that the husband should help her to climax with either oral or hand stimulation) but that the goal is to work towards intercourse being the sole method of satisfactory sex for both parties.
Now, having said that---that's one Christian authors view point (and I think he did have scripture to back it up) but many verses are open to intrepretation. I can't say that I believe that you shouldn't do anything you want with your spouse.
2006-11-15 17:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think God is concerned with the physical acts between two people? As for looking for scripture to justify sexual acts or not, that's ridiculous. As long as couples are engaged in mutual, consensual acts, that build up their relationship and aren't destructive to it then it doesn't matter. You are taking scripture out of context and trying to make it fit your own purposes. The Bible is not a "how to" or even "how not to." The Bible is a book of faith, containing writings of lots of different people in different situations, giving witness to their experience of faith. There are much more important questions to be asked about how to live out our faith than what is ok or not to do in a marriage bed.
2006-11-15 18:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by keri gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're MARRIED. Do you mean to tell me that God actually isn't thrilled enough that YOUNG people, in today's world, are still getting married, he actually has to peep into their bedrooms and judge what they're doing as a MARRIED couple?!
I hope you're joking. I mean, seriously. Foreplay is NATURAL. Many women NEED foreplay to have enough natural lubricant that sex isn't physically painful for them! You think God wants to take foreplay away from his children so that wives can try to enjoy painful sex with their husbands?!!
I'm sure God doesn't care what a married couple does in the privacy of their own bedroom, as long as they're respectful and both in agreement with what they want to do.
2006-11-15 22:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by thelittlemerriemaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read up on Sodom and Gomora, I believe it is in Genesis, starting somewhere aroind Chapter 10
2006-11-15 18:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to clarify. You want bible verses to back up whether or not married couples can have oral sex?
2006-11-15 17:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Between two people who have committed themselves to each other for a life time...
IT IS NOBODYS BUSINESS.
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2006-11-15 18:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once you are married long enough , you will know.
2006-11-15 17:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by samssculptures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋